Transphobic comments

Intentionally silencing the truth

  • @RegalPotoo@lemmy.world
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    422 years ago

    sigh, people suck.

    This is actually something that bugs me about GitHub - I’m a Professional Software Developer, and we use GitHub enterprise internally at work (don’t @ me, we don’t have the budget to run our own infrastructure, BitBucket is crap and the sales person at GitLab ghosted me on 3 consecutive calls that we set up to discuss our needs). I’m also in charge of a team, and actively encourage the team to contribute to open source - find a bug? Draw up reproduction steps, report it upstream, and Fridays after lunch are dedicated to getting those bugs fixed. One of these days one of my team is going to run across one of these assholes, and I’m going to have a proper HR incident on my hands because that is a hostile work environment. Doesn’t matter that it is a member of the public being a dick, I’ve got an obligation to ensure that my staff have a workplace free of harassment, and I’ve got absolutely no recourse against this other than to say “cool, we don’t contribute to this repo anymore”.

    • @_edge@discuss.tchncs.de
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      132 years ago

      that is a hostile work environment

      I understand your frustration. I go to GitHub für code, not for some weirdo’s Telegram channel. But, come on, do your employees have access to the internet? Does someone maintain a Facebook page on the clock? Is Google allowed? Reasonable people can distinguish between workplace and internet hate.

      • @RegalPotoo@lemmy.world
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        132 years ago

        Where I live at least, there is a difference because they are performing a task that they are being directed to perform as part of their job, as opposed to just randomly stumbling across hate while browsing the internet - if I’ve directed one of my staff to “submit a PR to this repo and work with the maintainers to get it merged” and some asshole drops into the comments they are being forced to engage in that situation, and that is not ok.

        One case that I’ve heard of is a pizza delivery place that had to pay some serious compensation to a couple of their delivery people because they refused to stop accepting orders from someone who would be super abusive if their delivery person wasn’t a white guy. Management knew what was happening, the drivers had complained and asked for a resolution, management had refused to do anything about it, so the business had to pay compensation.

        • @_edge@discuss.tchncs.de
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          22 years ago

          Where I live at least, there is a difference because they are performing a task that they are being directed to perform as part of their job

          I agree. This makes it a workplace problem. Sucks.

    • DigitalDilemma
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      32 years ago

      the sales person at GitLab ghosted me on 3 consecutive calls that we set up to discuss our needs).

      I’m guessing they looked at your company and decided you weren’t worth enough to them.

      We found Gitlab’s pricing to be, frankly, ridiculous for the number of seats we have. Shame, the product is nice, just the sales team and pricing structure blows goats.

    • @FishFace@lemmy.world
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      -22 years ago

      Rules around preventing a hostile work environment don’t place an obligation on anyone to prevent it at all costs. It means that if an employee or - more relevantly here - a customer - is being hostile, then the workplace needs to make sure the employee or customer stops. But if you work in a call centre cold calling people, your company isn’t going to get fined if you get an earful of abuse. (They might get fined for cold-calling depending on specifics :P) Same here.

  • @merthyr1831@lemmy.world
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    402 years ago

    Transphobia and such aside (which are shitty and unnecessary in their own right), how on earth can you realistically boycott Wayland when nearly every last Xorg dev has moved to Wayland permanently?

    X11 is simply end of life, and there are no display server technologies or protocols that exist to challenge Wayland because no one cares enough to bother with the immesnse work it entails? At best you’ll be stuck on a legacy distro for a few years until your display drivers become too out of date for whatever apps you use.

      • @lorty@lemmy.ml
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        122 years ago

        They thrive of hating the weaker groups in society. If you want some morbid fun, try asking one of those what they should do with trans people if the had the power…

      • Zoolander
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        112 years ago

        If they had to get mad at reality, there’d be a lot less to be mad about. Being mad about made-up BS is a way for them to have their cake and eat it too. It’s boogeymen all the way down.

      • WalrusDragonOnABike
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        82 years ago

        They want everyone to be cis, so obviously everyone else wants people to be in their groups too!

      • @interceder270@lemmy.world
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        2 years ago

        The main reason is that they try to control what people think and how they feel. They don’t understand that just because they want to be seen and treated a certain way doesn’t mean everyone else needs to accommodate them.

        If you believe men can’t be women (and vice-versa), that’s fine. If you believe they can, that’s fine too.

        If you believe your view is an abject fact and there should be no discussion, then that’s not fine. Unfortunately, a lot of people fall into the last category where they hear something that challenges their beliefs and immediately want to censor it. All that does is create enemies by telling people they can’t discuss their views.

        It’s an effective tactic, on both sides.

        • Nobody is trying to control what people think or how they feel. You’re really just being an ignorant fool in every comment you post, aren’t you?

      • @Wes_Dev@lemmy.ml
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        12 years ago

        Those in power hate losing control. That’s why bodily autonomy, sexual freedom, critical thinking, accurate history, and religious diversity are all their go-to boogymen.

        Trans folk are just one of the more recent groups to be targeted.

        I’ve known four out trans people. One was a piece of shit. The other three turned out to be amazing and empathetic people who all made my life better just by knowing them.

        It turns out, when you deal with people being entitled jerks to you all day, that tends to make you a better person. Forged in fire and all that.

  • You want give some context here? We don’t even know who is speaking in these screenshots, and to what end. Why would this even be a conversation?

  • @TheGrandNagus@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    Unsurprising. I’ve seen a fair amount of people in the Linux community like this.

    It’s also quite hilarious to see them frothing at the mouth so much over Gnome getting some money to aid in accessibility improvements lol. Can’t be having the less abled using computers now, can we?

    • @socsa@lemmy.ml
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      52 years ago

      Wait until FOSS nerds learn that the NSA and DoD are some of the top upstream contributors to FOSS projects.

  • @tetris11@lemmy.ml
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    262 years ago

    I remember back when I thought all FOSS was part of the FSF, and that itself was formed of hippie liberal progressives. Had a rude awakening when I found about the MIT vs GPL rift, and then another on HN when I realised half the people in software were just there to make money.

    • @pixelscript@lemmy.ml
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      142 years ago

      I had a period where I didn’t really understand the GPL or what it was trying to do. All I knew is that it was ““viral”” (whatever the hell that meant!) and that, supposedly, trying to use it would forever bind you and your creation to who knows what unforeseen legal horrors. I mean, look how long it is! It’s frightening! I wanted absolutely nothing to do with it at first.

      Then I got a clue and actually read it. It’s quite straightforward. For almost all serves and purposes it’s basically just MIT plus copyleft. All the legal density is just an effort to squash every conceivable loophole to the copyleft directive. I’m no longer afraid of it, I think it’s pretty cool.

      The thing I want to know now is why so many projects think their shit don’t stink and that they need to pollute the FOSS ecosystem with their own stupid permissive license that is functionally identical to the MIT license.

        • The Doctor
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          22 years ago

          Could also have to do with running a gauntlet of lawyers to be allowed to open some code you wrote.

    • @interceder270@lemmy.world
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      2 years ago

      So like… and hear me out, software has just changed over time. Way more people use and develop it now, so it kind of makes sense that it would revolve around what most people are interested in. That’s not really hippie liberal progressive stuff. I’m in it for that. I’m all about the GPL. But while we are a relative minority, it’s not like our absolute numbers have dropped or even stagnated.

      I’d say we’re growing at a steady pace. I think it happens with pretty much all new forms of art. Look at video games, movies, music, etc.

      • @tetris11@lemmy.ml
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        12 years ago

        My simple worldview: The Linux kernel is a good thing. A community driven project that betters the world by putting control into the power of the people, written by the goodwill of developers in their free time, and later, reluctantly by big corps who saw it as a threat too big to ignore.

        To my naive self, these were all sure signs that the world was moving progressively to the side of the economic left, born out of a need for a common world computing infrastructure/kernel. Nice people doing nice things for other people. Sharing/caring, etc. etc. I genuinely assumed a strong social left movement dominated computer science.

        Again, I was shocked by how many people just wanted to use it to found their startups, not share their code, or not contribute anything back to the frameworks that empowered them.

  • Bloody Harry
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    2 years ago

    [Completely unrelated to the content] How the heck is this post managing to crash two out of my three lemmy clients?

  • Krause [he/him]
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    122 years ago

    Wayland fixes VRR, mixed refresh rate display setups, screen tearing, X11 security bugs AND makes bigots mad? Sign me up! :-)

    • Iapar
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      62 years ago

      Sometimes it helps to talk about things that affect you. It is a healthy way to go about things.

    • The Doctor
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      22 years ago

      You’d rather not know that someone you might find yourself working with could turn on you in the blink of an eye for a reason you’re not even aware of?

  • I’m actually pro LGTB and hate Wayland. Don’t make us all look as conservative scumbags. Some of use just hate Red Hat (IBM) because of their big corp nature.

        • @clearleaf@lemmy.world
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          62 years ago

          This comic never made sense to me. She hates sea lions because they don’t let people talk shit about them. Seems like she’s the problem here in neo london where sapient sea lions live among us. They’re here, get over it.

          • @Kindness@lemmy.ml
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            22 years ago

            because they don’t let people talk shit about them

            The manner in which you engage in dialogue is important.

            Pretending to not understand another person’s viewpoint, and annoying them into compliance, is arguing in bad faith. Arguments in bad faith are malicious deception.

            Nobody wants to speak with sea lions because even if you explain in good faith, it won’t amount to anything except your own frustration. A summary of the heart of the sea lion: Arguing with me is pointless. “And now that you’re mad, you’ll know better than to talk shit about sea lions.”

            Don’t be a sea lion. You can protest opinions without being manipulative or rude about it.

            • Communist
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              12 years ago

              …do you actually think the sea lion understands why people hate sea lions?

              None of this is in the comic.

              • @Kindness@lemmy.ml
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                12 years ago

                They must, by definition. So yes. But for the sake of illustration, let’s assume someone who acts like a sea lion isn’t arguing in bad faith, but they aren’t arguing in good faith either. Whether they and unintentionally annoying, or not, ultimately makes no difference to the people around them.

                Let’s say a specific oblivious person is combative and persistent. They are not truly trying to understand something, they just want to be right. You try to explain why their responses could be considered rude and prompt self reflection.

                A) Will they evaluate themselves and realize what they are doing? B) Will they argue because they insist on being right?

                The former is a rude person, but they are someone trying to figure out the world. Whether you engage with them or not, eventually they will realize their actions are causing disengagement. We’re all trying to learn and become better versions of ourselves. This person made some mistakes, realizes it, then changes.

                There is no point in engaging the latter. Their lack of self awareness is irrelevant to the outcome and your mental state. Leave them alone, and don’t respond. If you do respond, and they realize they are wrong, but continue: they become a sea-lion if the fake politeness, and troll if they become inflammatory.

                Don’t feed the trolls. If they want to, “be right,” they can be alone in thinking they’re right, and you can get back to learning and bettering yourself.

                None of this is in the comic.

                No satirical comic literally explains the intent of the comic; intent must be inferred based on the events it depicts. Or you can search the internet, Know Your Meme attempts to track culture and context. Yay for them.

                • Communist
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                  12 years ago

                  Ah, I see, i didn’t realize sea lioning was an established term before that.

        • @Kindness@lemmy.ml
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          The point of the sea lion is persistent argument in bad faith.

          The difference between, “prove your opinion,” can be subtle in its difference from, “why do you think that?”

          Insinuating someone is badgering and being maliciously dishonest, because they asked for context, is poor etiquette.

        • Communist
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          22 years ago

          I’m absolutely team sea-lion here, did you read that comic?

          I mean, just imagine if the sea-lion was a black person…

      • @interceder270@lemmy.world
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        -12 years ago

        Damn, imagine having to answer this question every time you say you don’t like something.

        Something tells me you don’t ask this when people say they hate X.

  • @IverCoder@lemm.eeOP
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    102 years ago

    Sorry for the Windows emojis lol, I’m on a computer shop as I post this on lunch break

  • 小莱卡
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    52 years ago

    I dream of a future when people are not hostile to change.