• Lenny
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    Lemmy users project their toxicity towards Reddit. This place can be quite hostile if you don’t echo the ‘correct’ ideals.

  • kingthrillgore
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    I’m frustrated more people are complacent with the state of the world, including myself.

  • @GnuLinuxDude@lemmy.ml
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    I think 10 years ago this would’ve been unpopular, but today maybe not so much:

    systemd is great software. I don’t use distros that refuse to ship it. Especially the init system. Thanks, Lennart!

    • @Jarix@lemmy.world
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      Find a European/Dutch deli if you’ve never been in one you might really enjoy what you find

  • @pdxfed@lemmy.world
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    Jack black isn’t funny at all. He’s worse, incredibly fucking irritating and annoying and a try hard. He epitomizes mainstream US “comedy”; obvious, loud, overstating the delivery of jokes with overwrought physical humor. He and Horatio Sanz must have studied under the same Sithlord. Can’t stand him.

  • @iowagneiss@midwest.social
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    Graveyards are a disgusting waste of space. Their existence communicates to society that many dead people are more entitled to space on this Earth than some living people will ever have.

    • @sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      172 days ago

      From everything I read in this thread… you won.

      Graveyards don’t exist for the dead, they are a place where living people can mourn the loss of the dead person and remember older days.

      • @iowagneiss@midwest.social
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        I realize they’re not really for the dead, but the living decide that their dead bodies are entitled to more space than some living. Plots cost thousands of dollars. We ostracize the unhoused. Our priorities are broken, and graveyards are yet another thing for those “with” that those “without” will not have.

        • @pishadoot@sh.itjust.works
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          I don’t know. Personally I don’t need a “place” to go visit someone that is deceased, but I have very close family that needs that place in order to grieve. Pets or human family, they need to be buried and have a marker.

          When I lived in a more urban environment the only way to achieve that was through graveyards/pet cemeteries. With some land and the option I’d rather bury people at home now, but lots of people don’t have that luxury, but still have the need to “visit” deceased loved ones, and know where they “are.”

          I’m not one of those people, sounds like you aren’t either, but that doesn’t mean that a graveyard doesn’t serve a useful purpose for the majority of people.

          Could they be more efficient? Sure, maybe. But honestly do they really take up THAT much space?

          Definitely fits the unpopular opinion tag, but I think you’ve got some blinders on your empathy if you don’t see their value.

        • @Taco2112@lemmy.world
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          I understand the sentiment and yes, just like everything else, capitalism has turned death into a money making racket at the expense of the average person.

          I live near a cemetery currently and was raised near a different one, they make great neighbors. Quiet and the one near me now is also a wildlife refuge so I can’t call that wasted space. Yes, it’s privately owned but it’s open to the public. Also, I work in historic preservation and love working in and exploring cemeteries.

          In the end, I just love the blend of history, architecture, and nature in one place.

    • @LuckyPierre@lemm.ee
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      Graveyards don’t exist for the dead.

      They exist for both relatives to mourn, and the wider populace who value the perspective on their own problems that graveyards provide. They’re also normally a peaceful place in an often unpeaceful world, much as urban green spaces.

    • @GnuLinuxDude@lemmy.ml
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      When I was in unspecified foreign country I went to a graveyard with my family. It was very different in that the bodies were buried basically right next to each other and you basically just walk over the bodies of the interred to get to where you want to go.

      It was a bit distinct from how we do it in America where, much like our suburban houses, you have to have a pointless giant green lawn surrounding where the body is buried.

    • @scintilla@lemm.ee
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      I’m going to push back because as society exists now there are a lot of cities I have been to where the graveyard is the most easily accessible green space. I don’t know how weird it may be but sitting with the dead in the quite separated from the surroundings was one of my favorite things to experience. I’m not a religious/spiritual person and it was very helpful in connecting to the people who died before I met them.

    • @glibg@lemmy.ca
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      Tradition means giving votes to the most obscure of all classes — our ancestors. It is the democracy of the dead. Tradition refuses to submit to the small and arrogant oligarchy of those who merely happen to be walking around. – G.K. Chesterton

  • Who knew?
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    too many dudes in this thread thinking eugenics and pedophilia are unpopular. They’re very popular and that’s a very bad thing

    • Steal Wool
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      I didn’t really like the Beatles until I started listening to all the non-#1 hit songs.

  • Zippythezigzag
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    COD sucks. The only good ones were world at war and the original modern warfare series. That’s it. All others aren’t worth a shit.

    Now before you respond, yes I know there are many people that agree with this, but with people I know in real life this is unpopular.

    • kingthrillgore
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      I have great memories of the first Call of Duty solely for its sound design. It elevated it above Medal of Honor.

      The franchise has been trash since after the OG Modern Warfare.

    • @gamermanh@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      I’ve been buying the ones with zombies modes exclusively for 15 years because the industry refuses to make a fucking decent clone of that mode, and it annoys me

      CoD has actually had some GREAT single-player campaigns when compared with their competition in the FPS space, honestly. MP? Yeah no, ew, especially lately

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        I will admit I did love that one (single player) mission in black ops 1 (I think) where you and a few guys raid a house with the lights out. That was fun and slightly scary and I loved it.

        Edit: ADD here, I forgot where I was going with that.

        …as for zombies, I could never get into zombie mode. I’ve tried it but it just isn’t for me.

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    I find it difficult to respect the way we exist in society. Most of us in the west enjoy what we have because someone elsewhere is being exploited. The general pride and vanity we have is unjustified and we should be using that power for good instead. We are focused on the right wrong things.

    You could say that this opinion isn’t unpopular, but just try bringing it up in conversation. Many don’t want to know.

    • @verity@sh.itjust.works
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      You’re absolutely right but where do we as privileged and I guess inherently exploitative westerners go from here. Also the entire neoliberaljst system seems to be set up as a exploitation pyramid, where even us the privileged westerners are being exploited for the gains of those monetarily positioned above us.

      Me I’m just trying to to understand all this so I can figure out where to go from there

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        Good question. The first step with any endeavour is mindset. So when people ask “where do we go from here?” my first thought is that we should stop the glorification of exploitation. Stop wearing brand logos. Stop showing our new devices to people with enthusiasm. Stop celebrating the “winners” of capitalism.

        I don’t think we should despair - that doesn’t scale well. But we should (IMO) buy these things with a sense of regret or realism. We should normalise the discourse. I want us to be as up to date on this as people who follow sports.

        Otherwise, not only will we never think of ways to fix this, but we won’t even recognise the solution when it’s in front of us.

        We need to become conscious and informed of the dilemma of people who look different to us and consider them our brethren. That does wonders for the exploitative appetites we’ve developed.

    • @Aitherios@lemmy.ml
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      That’s not unpopular at all yet, highly hypocritical. “Feeling bad” is just a way to feel like you’re giving something back, without actually helping.

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        If we feel good about it, we’re primed to continue the dark pattern. The first step is acknowledging the problem. If you remove the first step, subsequent steps can’t happen.

        I get where you’re coming from. I see land acknowledgements used in colonies like NZ, Canada and USA yet treaties remain broken. I think (IMO) the answer is “all the things” rather than some. But we’re not even shuffling the deck yet as a population so making first steps accessible is important in my own experience. Too much in one go and peoples eyes glaze over.

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          Of course, it’s important to do the first steps. But that’s the thing. 99% of the population will stick to that first step. I plan to help people when I can in the future, but, I need to help myself first. Tho, see society around me, I don’t see that happening. I need to get rich and the only way to be rich is to either sell something stupid, yet “hypnotizing” or, to be corrupted and doing illegal stuff (and if you don’t have connection, will get caught).

          People are dumb. Yeah, yeah, I know, everyone says that. But that’s another point. We are ALL dumb and especially weak af. Especially me! Cheers my friend!

    • @OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml
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      I have studied this greatly recently. Including strategies and methods to counter and create more symbiotic feedback loops. Game theory, zero sum outcomes, Nash equilibrium. There are loads of studies and detailed analysis on how all of this type of behavior works against us.

      It’s fascinating. Humanity has a long long way to go for where we think we should be FOSS and others. We are no where near the capacity of greatness we think we have achieved. Where we are now historically. It’s a facade. Smoke and mirrors on the grand scale. We are in a great transition right now.

      Time displayed in different information architectures is interesting and where the real deep learning happens. Not just time but information structuring in general. Time was just relative to this reply. We train deep learning on this. It’s heavy mental gymnastics.

  • @MuskyMelon@lemmy.world
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    The purpose of government is to take care of the people. I’d rather pay more taxes to make sure my fellow men are fed, clothed, sheltered, educated and cared for because it improves security for my loved ones.

  • @r0ertel@lemmy.world
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    When filing paperwork, like in those hanging file folders, the papers should be placed into the folder with the paper’s left margin up. This way, any stapled pages can be flipped through as a bunch rather than individual pages. Also, the most important text tends to be left justified, such as the return address. Apparently this goes counter to every accountant’s training, but I’m sticking to it.

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    Jeez, this thread is scary, I forget how many crazy opinions people can have.

    Mine is probably that non-human animal lives matter, maybe not exactly in the same way that human lives do, but in a comparable and important way. I believe that murder is murder no matter the animal killed.

    And also a maybe close second (not really an opinion but you could argue that I’m too dark about it) is that climate change is far past the point of no return and that in 50 years we are all going to live extremely hard lives (if we even survive) that right now would seem like an apocalypse type fantasy movie.

    • @ChilledPeppers@lemmy.world
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      Climate change is not a lost cause. We are beating any estimates on wind and solar deployment, solar is cheap as fuck, and overall, were just no that bad off.

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        To be fair, I didn’t explain myself. I don’t think it is a lost cause. I think that we’re already at a point where it’s gonna become apocalyptic. I think if we don’t do anything about it, it will become an extinction event.

        But, I will admit that the last few weeks have been super depressing and myi mnd ia probably not as objective as it can be about the future

      • Xavienth
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        Also there is no “point of no return.” Every extra kilogram of CO2 is an extra small increase in temperature. The more we emit, the worse it gets. It’s not on-off.