Self defense? Only on the battlefield? Only to achieve a ‘noble’ end?

  • @dingus@lemmy.world
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    282 years ago

    When someone who I was supposed to be able to trust kept repeatedly trying to record me naked in the shower, I retaliated once by kicking him hard in the face. I was told that what I did was wrong and violence was never the answer. I disagree.

    • @andrewta@lemmy.world
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      142 years ago

      I agree with you and disagree with anyone who said it’s not OK.

      Some people will learn with a gentle hand. Some learn with a slightly firm hand. Some only learn when you pick up a 2x4 and beat them.

      • Whenever my father’s family wanted to convey what an injury felt like or needed a theoretical weapon the humble 2x4 was always used. Thanks for bringing back memories of the old folks telling stories around a fire or in a crowded, smoky kitchen. :)

    • @aksdb@feddit.de
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      2 years ago

      As a kid another kid regularly bullied me. Nothing extremely serious… pushing me, grabbing me, putting me in a headlock, stuff like that whenever he felt like it and/or wanted something. Parents and teachers were not able to stop it and I basically just got retaliation. One day when he came at me I simply kicked and managed to hit right in his balls. He ran away crying. Never bothered me again afterwards. Still feels good.

  • @intensely_human@lemm.ee
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    212 years ago

    Violence is justified when it’s needed to protect yourself or someone else from violence. That’s about it, honestly.

    I am not a fan of pre-emptive violence.

  • @sbv@sh.itjust.works
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    192 years ago

    Nobody else has mentioned proportionality.

    When responding to aggression, the response should not significantly escalate the risk. So lethal force should only be applied in scenarios where there is a lethal threat, etc.

      • VaultBoyNewVegas
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        92 years ago

        Nope. That’s the logic cops use when shooting people in the back or kicking a guy in the head who’s lying on the ground.

        • MxM111
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          52 years ago

          But that’s all you have in the moment. There is nothing else.

        • @PsychedSy@sh.itjust.works
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          42 years ago

          You’re not required to risk your life for someone that’s victimizing you. You didn’t create the situation and your responsibility is to defend yourself and your loved ones.

          • VaultBoyNewVegas
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            -12 years ago

            Sure I’ll keep a knife on me and shank every cunt that walks near me as they might be a threat

            Sounds totally fucking sane. No wonder this planets fucked when there’s people looking for an excuse to put someone six feet under.

            • @PsychedSy@sh.itjust.works
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              32 years ago

              You should chill a bit and not make wild assumptions.

              Can you respond to me directly with what you find wrong with the idea, or present an actual situation you think I’d be okay with?

              I’m talking about clear and obvious aggression. If someone pulls a knife, you’re allowed to defend yourself. You don’t have to wait to get stabbed.

              And I would recommend a firearm for defense, but that’s on you. I carry a knife so I can kill myself if I feel like it.

          • VaultBoyNewVegas
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            32 years ago

            I’ve been caught in a bomb scare, guns would have done fuck all when there was a massive police presence that the trains were stopped and the shut down a whole part of a city. In fact a gun would have made me more likely to be killed than going the fuck home.

  • @Starshader@lemmy.ml
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    132 years ago

    Self défense, yep. On a battlefield ? Let these old fuck fight one vs one to resolve their conflict. A noble end is so fucking subjective that I think it would be a terrible idea.

  • @MrAlternateTape@lemm.ee
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    102 years ago

    Violence is justified when you have no other means left to defend yourself or someone else otherwise.

    At which point I would like to add that people will sometimes not be able to see the means they have left because they are put in a stressful situation in a second. I feel like you can’t really blame them for that.

    Violence as a response should always be in proportion. That should avoid escalation. In an ideal world.

    Unfortunately some people won’t stop. Those people need to be put into prison where they cannot hurt anyone anymore.

  • @LemmyFeed@lemmy.world
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    82 years ago

    I heard a quote that has really stuck with me, it goes something like “violence is the supreme authority from which all other authority is derived”

    I don’t really condone violence, but this quote has really gotten me thinking.

  • Call me Lenny/Leni
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    42 years ago

    Violence is a form of escalation. One should never cause a conflict to come to a new height and should only resort to something if in response to anything of that same height.

    Also, if a ruler of a nation resorts to that, it shows they’re not a great/effective ruler. Fluency in how to rule is determined by how much peace you can accomplish with as little change as possible. Less is more, as they say. If you have to punish people too often like some are doing, you’re violating that “less is more” rule.