• RBWells@lemmy.worldEnglish
    22·
    2 days ago

    My husband’s comment was “that’s silly. the whole point of marriage is to grow old together.”

    • DrSoap@lemmy.worldEnglish
      9·
      2 days ago

      My theory is that men who agree with this post can’t find any woman to marry them and this is just a way of them consoling their fragile ego.

  • criss_cross@lemmy.worldEnglish
    151·
    2 days ago

    Obviously the dude is an idiot but what is his proposal?

    That you…stay a virgin forever?

    Does he think you can just keep bouncing from 20 year old to 20 year old until you die? That’s not how anything works.

    • pir8t0x@lemmy.mlEnglish
      3·
      1 day ago

      >>That you…stay a virgin forever?

      I just don’t agree with one thing here. This is such a misconception… Staying virgin is nothing to be ashamed of

      • criss_cross@lemmy.worldEnglish
        2·
        1 day ago

        It’s not. Sorry for making it seem like that.

        I was more trying to convey “well because women age I’m not going to participate at all”. And give it a “I’ll take my ball and go home”.

    • Jax@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      8·
      1 day ago

      Rich and/or fame means that’s absolutely how it works.

      That being said, OP(?) is right — his wife evolved some massive hodonnahonkeroos.

      Edit: sorry not OP, what do you even call the commenter on the bottom in a post like this?

  • irish_link@lemmy.worldEnglish
    69·
    3 days ago

    I would also like to point out the double standard. While this is a fine… I mean freaking fiiiiiine picture.

    To the point the dumb shit was trying to make, there is a picture of Pierce Brosnan on a beach with a giant gut. Don’t see the dude posting that kind of shit.

    • Duamerthrax@lemmy.worldEnglish
      281·
      3 days ago

      It’s not this tweet, but I have seen people try shaming Brosnan over that.

      There are unhealthy beauty standards set to both genders. They’re just geared differently. Women are suppose to be prizes and men are suppose to be warriors. Tate is the result of decades of masculine marketing and the exact thing the movie Fight Club warned about.

      Look at what they did to Luke Skywalker toys over time.

      • BranBucket@lemmy.worldEnglish
        10·
        3 days ago

        And the real tell is that the warrior ideal combined with super broad chest and shoulders are meant to denote strength, but the strongest men tend to be thick through the middle and lack the bodybuilder v-taper they give these toys. Not that bodybuilders aren’t stronger than most people by far, but when you look at the people who hold records for lifting the most weight they’re nothing like those toys. It’s just as shallow and dumb as a lot of women’s beauty standards.

    • AFK BRB Chocolate (CA version)@lemmy.caEnglish
      10·
      3 days ago

      I think it’s even worse than the double standard. Saying that people shouldn’t get married because some decades later your spouse might not be hot is infuriating to me. You’re with someone for decades - if the only reason you’re with them is because they were smoking hot at 25, you’re immensely shallow and immature. People get old. Age happens.

  • Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish
    26·
    3 days ago

    I might be wrong but so many times I hear people talk about how big breast are desirable, how a big ass is desirable, how curves are great.

    And then seemingly the same idiot look at women like that and talk shit… I am wondering if it is cope because they are jealous because everything else is insane.

    • boonhet@sopuli.xyzEnglish
      11·
      2 days ago

      They’ve both put on a bit of weight over the years but only one gets criticised here.

      I’m sure he appreciates the bigger fun bags as a bonus. And after 25 years of marriage I don’t think either of them is staying for the other’s body anyway.

  • Duamerthrax@lemmy.worldEnglish
    43·
    3 days ago

    Imagine trying to demonize one of the few people in Hollywood who you can rule out being a kiddie diddler.

  • But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.worldEnglish
    29·
    3 days ago

    I bet you she looks as beautiful to him now as she did then if not more so. What with having kids, my wife’s body has changed over the years and I found her gorgeous in every stage.

  • gustofwind@lemmy.worldEnglish
    453·
    3 days ago

    They both look incredible for their age

    Incel manosphere culture is partially a result of many closeted bisexual and gay men having to succeed under conservatism