• Flying Squid
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        167 months ago

        I don’t only need six hours, but it’s all my body allows me to get lately.

        • @Dozzi92@lemmy.world
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          47 months ago

          Yeah, I straight up cannot just sleep in. If I lay there extra, things just start to hurt, like my body’s saying “Get up, you have shit to do.”

          • Flying Squid
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            27 months ago

            Right. My wife and my daughter will sleep all morning. I’m up at 6 at the very latest. If I’m lucky.

            • @Shapillon@lemmy.world
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              37 months ago

              Last year I discovered what 7/8h of sleep felt like thanks to horse adapted amounts of sleeping medication (120mg of Miamserine, 500mg of quetiapine, some THC).

              Before that I was used to 5/6h on the regular and 1/3h when it got worse.

              I don’t really understand how I have functionned all these years with that much sleep deprivation.

              • Flying Squid
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                27 months ago

                I’ve been on various types of sleep medication, although those sound like newer ones than when I was trying them years ago- every single one of them left me drowsy in the morning. Some for half the day. It was even worse than just not getting a full 8 hours.

                And OTC stuff? Forget it. If I take some NyQuil, I basically will be unable to do much but sit there in a haze for the next 18 hours or so.

                • @Shapillon@lemmy.world
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                  37 months ago

                  Yeah these are pretty newish. It might also not be what they’re called in your country.

                  My main issue with otc stuff is that it tended to make me drowsy but still unable to sleep …

    • @dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      I’m with you there.

      If this ::wildly points at self:: is intelligent design, then said intelligence clearly adhered to a strict “just barely good enough to survive and move genes around” work ethos. That, or over-doing it wasn’t going to fit into the time and materials budget.

      Source: anxiety, PMS, knees, shoulders, oversized skull, vulnerable gonads on outside of body.

      • @Shapillon@lemmy.world
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        57 months ago

        Don’t forget the absolutely deranged path wour vagal nerve takes through your torsoe because fish didn’t have necks and we do.

    • @unwarlikeExtortion@lemmy.ml
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      17 months ago

      To be fair, it’s called “intelligent”, not “omnipotent” design, but still.

      Those types always claim omnipotency as well. So you’d expect an omnipotent being to make it perfect for everyone. Since it isn’t, the being’s either ignorant or sadist. Or, wait for it - a fucking fairy tale. And with ignorancy one can hardly claim a respectable level of intelligence.

  • @anonymous111@lemmy.world
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    237 months ago

    I used to wake up energized about twice per year. These last few years I always wake up tired.

    I’ve had sleep apnea tests (I dont have it).

    I stopped drinking alcohol, ironically a lot of the ‘hangovers’ I had appear to be how I wake up without drinking too.

    I drink about 1l of water before bed. If I dont, I get let cramps when asleep.

    I eat multivitamins daily with addition iron and vitamin D.

    I used to drink a lot of coffee but now can’t stomach the stuff.

    I went caffeine free for months and it didnt help.

    I’m completely screws lol :D

    • @Classy@sh.itjust.works
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      107 months ago

      Not to preach to the choir, but my sleep quality improved greatly when I started a very physical job. Not to say you have to do that, but moving around can be very beneficial

      • @anonymous111@lemmy.world
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        57 months ago

        Thanks for the help!

        I’ve worked out 5 days a week, 3 days weights, 2 days cardio with no noticeable impact.

        I’m glad it worked for you :)

    • Track_ShovelOP
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      67 months ago

      Let me introduce you to my friend Magnesium. It’s improved my sleep quality substantially in the past 2 weeks I’ve started taking it

        • Track_ShovelOP
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          47 months ago

          I think it’s 200 mg. There’s a couple different formats out there. Some are more gentle on your stomach. Go with those, and take before bed. Omega 3s are supposed to help, too, so I take them as well

        • @PolarisFx@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          Glycinate or Citrate will do the most for you sleep wise. Pills are dirt cheap, or if you want some flavor you can buy Natural Calm. It’s just flavored magnesium citrate.

          Pills are 200mg per pill, I have alot of sleep issues I usually take 4 pills. 2 if each type and sleep like a baby. But some people can’t handle the magnesium and it causes diarrhea

    • @UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works
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      57 months ago

      Not to seem like an ad, but buying a cooling pod for my bed was game changer. I used to sleep like a rotisserie chicken and was always tired. Now I cool my bed all night and not only have the corners of my sheets stayed put but I’m just significantly less tired all around.

    • @d2k1@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Have you checked the air quality in your room during the night? If the CO2 level is too high you will not sleep well and may wake up with headaches or otherwise feeling unwell.

      Best to sleep with a window open to ensure some fresh air can get in.

      • @anonymous111@lemmy.world
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        17 months ago

        Thanks for the help!

        No noticeable difference with window open or closed. No noticeable difference in hot or cold climates.

        My partner sleeps fine so it might be something else.

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      Considering what you’ve tried this might seem obvious but since I didn’t see these explicitly mentioned:

      Have you tried being really consistent with your sleep schedule? Especially the time you wake up? (Probably the most important thing one can do for sleep quality)

      Have you checked wether the temperature you sleep in is ideal(cooler than normal)?

      Have you eliminated lights and noise from your bedroom? It needs to be completely dark and insulated from noise.

      Have you checked your sleep position and mattress? There are certain professional suggestions I’ve read about, like you should sleep on your side ideally with your dominant hand on top(fetal position) and the mattress should not be too hard or too soft and you sink into it too much and you should be replacing it from time to time(5-10 years).

      Have you optimized your pre and post sleep routines? Like staying away from screens and blue lights, winding down(for pre sleep), not changing up the routines as much as possible.

      Are you exercising enough and enough time before sleep?

    • @Hammocks4All@lemmy.ml
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      27 months ago

      Vitamin D makes me groggy. I still take it but I have to be strategic (eg, once a week on Friday night so if I wake up groggy Saturday it’s no big deal).

    • @dance_ninja@lemmy.world
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      17 months ago

      Something that has been helping me gain insight is a Garmin smartwatch I got earlier this year. Their body battery metric has been insightful to me. Turns out pushing myself too hard the previous day could mess with my sleep, which I didn’t know.

    • Track_ShovelOP
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      357 months ago

      What are you talking about? I love myself for 3 minutes before bed every night

  • @mochisuki@lemmy.world
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    117 months ago

    Get a home sleep study. Insurance covers a CPAP with Dr prescription. But mental hurdle but man waking up fresh is worth it

  • @fne8w2ah@lemmy.world
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    57 months ago

    Tossing and turning, struggling to fall asleep, and getting up to go to the toilet at totally random times.