• @bouh@lemmy.world
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    -913 days ago

    This is missing the point it’s embarrassing how stupidly wrong and antagonising it

    And then you will wonder why young men are misogynistic I guess. The answer is that you’re a fucking antagonising moron.

    • @Ifera@lemmy.world
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      1713 days ago

      It is simple ragebait to farm engagement. It absolutely sucks that so many just believe this is how everything works.

    • Sleepless One
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      1213 days ago

      And then you will wonder why young men are misogynistic I guess. The answer is that you’re a fucking antagonising moron.

      • @bouh@lemmy.world
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        012 days ago

        Yet another idiot who can’t co’'ect two braincells.

        Tell me, don’ t you feel like a hypocrite to blame the fascists from disdaining empathy while you are incapable of showing any either?

        • @BCsven@lemmy.ca
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          013 days ago

          Is the lonely man painting his clown life in each step? No. He is just lonely as he hasn’t done the first 3 steps

          • ℍ𝕂-𝟞𝟝
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            112 days ago

            But he still is in the fourth step, and it is presumed that the first three is how he got there.

              • ℍ𝕂-𝟞𝟝
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                -212 days ago

                Exactly my point, the meme insinuates that the only way men become lonely is that they hate women, which is not true and is a harmful generalisation.

                • @BCsven@lemmy.ca
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                  312 days ago

                  I don’t see it that way, to me it is showing how a certain type of man becomes lonely. The other type would be 1. small social circle (real or interwebs) 2. Lonely. And no face painting, because he’s not a clown, he just hasn’t met a match

                  • ℍ𝕂-𝟞𝟝
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                    011 days ago

                    That is right, but put yourself in the shoes of that other man, and ask yourself how he would feel on seeing this meme. Contrast it with memes about “only those Black people, not the good ones”.

      • @bouh@lemmy.world
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        012 days ago

        Except it makes the link with loneliness, which has nothing to do with incels. By doing so, this kind of post litteraly says that alllonely men are like the worst incels.

        It is insulting. And it is directly feeding the narrative of the fascists that says that feminists are mere anti-men instead of pro-equality.

        This même is a blend of arrogance, ignorance, disdain and malice. Even the fascist are rarely doing so bad.

          • @bouh@lemmy.world
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            211 days ago

            And the progression means thatl only incels come to this conclusion. Which is where it is insulting to many men who aren’t incels.

            • @BCsven@lemmy.ca
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              011 days ago

              I don’t see it as a binary choice. Maybe some people can’t read the meme format. Anyone with critical thinking can realize this is not a Venn diagram

              • @bouh@lemmy.world
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                111 days ago

                If you had any education in logic, A => B => C means something.

                When you do this logical development, it means C is the consequence of A.

                The même format also implies that C is a stupid assertion, because it’s associated with the clown figure. It says that the existence of a loneliness epidemic is a stupid proposition.

                This is denying reality. And this is mocking the people who suffer from loneliness.

                The biggest problem is not even the link between incels and loneliness epidemic. It is the denial of the problem. This is litteraly akin to conspiracy theories.

                • @BCsven@lemmy.ca
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                  Its a top down progression logic of conditional statements if this then this, it doesn’t work backwards. As I mentioned elsewhere it is not a Venn diagram meme where bottom statement is the only way you could be lonely.

                  • @bouh@lemmy.world
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                    010 days ago

                    If you deny that this meme is disdainful of the “there is a loneliness epidemic” statement, then you’re in bad faith.

                    Even if what you’re saying is logically true, that’s not the truth people see, as this thread demonstrates. Which means you’re in bad faith here.