• dogslayeggs@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I fucking hate that Romantasy has become such a big thing. I go into the fantasy section of the bookstore and only find romance shit now. I swear the back-flap description of every single fantasy book at the last bookstore I went to talked about how the protagonist would have to come to terms with her feelings for some man she shouldn’t be with.

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      As someone who likes the genre I’m just really happy there’s so much content being made. Yea some of it is slop trying to recapture the fad of ACOTAR (the book pictured), but some of the stuff coming out of it is really good. Also, because of this, there’s more romance in a lot of genres that didn’t have much before (looking at you sci-fi).

      Personally, I love love and reading romance brings me joy. Some of these books are cringy teen angst with unrealistic and toxic relationships (mainly the YA side), but I’ve found that most I’ve picked up have healthy relationships with interesting plots that don’t revolve around just the romance.

      That said, pure romance books (the pastel section of the store) have burned me too many times for me to bother trying anymore. Almost everything that this post complains about but 1000%.

      Ngl, this post reminds me of the backlash that seems to follow anything coded for women that becomes really popular.

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          Now come on, if you stick to reading it out of principle it sorta turns into X-Men and that’s ok with me.

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            I worked at borders when the last book in the 4 part series came out. Manager told me to read it. So I speed read the first two

            The only part I liked was the use of blank chapters to represent the passage of time during depression

            The rest was so dullllll

            I don’t know if xmen in the 4th book would have saved me

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            When I watched the movie, I turned every line spoken by a vampire into a pickup line and it became fun again, but you shouldn’t have to play games like that with your literature. Or cinema.

            The whole “imprinting on a baby” thing I heard about, that really skeezed me out

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        Ngl, this post reminds me of the backlash that seems to follow anything coded for women that becomes really popular.

        I don’t fucking hate that romantasy is being made, just that the percentage of fantasy that is centered on anything other than love is so low I have a hard time finding anything new I like. Just like I’m sure you were frustrated that your only option for romance was from the ripped bodice section and wanted more branching out. I’m upset that the fantasy genre has swung so hard. I’ve read fantasy books that were pretty decent that had romance as a large section, but most of the time it’s either men writing women badly or writing wish fulfillment porn, or women writing toxic and/or angsty shit.

        If you want a recommendation of what NOT to read when choosing new romantasy, avoid the Clocktaur set of books. Not only is the romance both angsty AND toxic, but the author switches between first and third person while also switching who the first person character is mid-chapter. Also, all of the characters constantly pinch their noses in consternation. It was really promising world building ruined by bad writing. A much better romantasy set of books was the Shepherd King set (One Dark Window and Two Twisted Crowns). It isn’t great, but the romance part was better written, and the magic system was very unique and interesting.

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      2 months ago

      it’s huge because real life romance is collapsing as people prefer imaginary romance.

      the problem in real life is that if you are with someone you shouldn’t be with, there are usually real negative consequences in your life.

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        2 months ago

        A lot of romance was like Pirates and shit. It’s not like it was ever really particularly grounded.

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      I also hate this trend. I’ve been reading a ton of SciFi the last few years because I fucking hate romantasy.

      I don’t mind love being part of a storyline either. But there’s a huge difference between love as part of the story and fucking romantasy.

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      I have so many small book stores around me that all stock the exact same romantasy/fantasy/teen-fantasy catalog. I don’t mind that it’s there, but it bums me out that there isn’t any bookspace ever dedicated to the non-fiction stuff I’m actually interested in. If there is, it’s usually a single shelf of not very good over priced something or other off the New York Times best seller list.

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      I mean… there was romantasy before (for example the Rhodry and Nevin books, something Spell) but not nearly as vapid.

      Edit Daggerspell, that’s it. Katharine Kerr.