• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 months ago

    Ya’ll want weirdo creepy shit?

    My Dad made a thing of taking me, a 12 year old boy back in the early 00s, to Hooters, for a while, and would encourage me to oogle the servers.

    This is… previously, before this, I was raised extremely prudish and right wing nutjob style Christian.

    My Dad just snapped, internally, at some point… alcoholism followed this.

    … my parents are still married, for some reason, even though they have clearly hated each other for a very long time.

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      2 months ago

      I wonder if your dad just wanted to get out and you were an excuse.

      tho, extreme christian - maybe he was trying to make you straight via exposure

      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        2 months ago

        I appreciate the well wishes.

        Yeah… I… have not had the easiest run at life, but, things have turned around since I ghosted my entire family a few years back.