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StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 3 months ago

What's the best part of life after 30?

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What's the best part of life after 30?

StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 3 months ago
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  • Melobol@lemmy.ml
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    3 months ago

    You start to develop the ability to not give a fuck.

    • Devadander@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      It’s an absolute superpower, too

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      Nah, I’ve turned 30 this year and I already don’t give a fuck and fear nothing. It scares me a little lol

  • AlecSadler@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I’m in my 40s and, uhhhh…

    Depending on how you’ve played your cards the best part is that you’ve ditched your shitty “friends” and have your 5 or less close friends now.

    You’ve solidified the music you like. The books you care to read.

    • FoundFootFootage78@lemmy.ml
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      I’m 25 and still sorting out the books I care to read. I’m overwhelmed with choice, particularly interesting works in genres that I don’t find much joy in.

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    Finally being able to (mostly) make decisions without undue influence of horniness.

  • Today@lemmy.world
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    Every year is my favorite year. Currently 55. Only reason to go back would be to undo stupid shit i said/did.

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    You start to really see who is here for you and who is here just to fuck around. You are surrounded by people who are both and after I hit 30, a lot of it became clearer as to who I should be returning my energy to.

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    Finally got my crap together. Career taking off, got rid of my toxic relationships, adopted several cats, getting into really good shape.

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    Sweet sweet brain maturity

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    Not wanting to go out or be social is more acceptable. Plus more excuses to stay home are available.

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    Closer to being done with all this silliness.

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    Ten years until evereything ellse fetts worser 4vr

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    Going to your religious place of worship and pray to your god to be taken to heaven

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    What Conan said. But with more grumbling about this or that hurting.

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    nothing

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    It’s an arbitrary milestone. For me, I stopped worrying about money around 32.

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