• Stupidmanager@lemmy.world
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      6 months ago

      Look, I did it at 47. Take the time to make a good profile, ask for help on pics and be an authentic you. It’s a mess out there, for those that never try.

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        6 months ago

        ask for help on pics

        I would like to second this point, especially if you’re not practiced at taking selfies. I’ve seen some fine looking men IRL whose profile pictures looked like potato.

        It doesn’t have to be this way. People like to help, and most would be happy to see you meet someone special. Might as well ask.

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          6 months ago

          I may or may not be one of these people that suck at selfies. But damn if my profile pics weren’t top amateur talent from my sister. I may not have had dating life partner success(yet), but I’ve had a good number of dates that went some distance.

          I repeat for those not listening: Effort pays off.