To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

Growing up in the 90’s, the “minimum acceptable” tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I’ve heard these days it’s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

What do you usually do?

  • @nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 months ago

    i live in vietnam. it’s a poor country. but restaurant workers here get paid in money, so they don’t need to work for gratuity. it would be strange or insulting if you tried to give extra money to the staff.

  • @otp@sh.itjust.works
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    112 months ago

    I was going to answer, but then you clarified on the body of your post that you only wanted answers from people in the US, lol

  • @gm0n3y@lemm.ee
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    92 months ago

    Typically 20-25 at a restaurant. I’m not a fan of tipping for transactions where I’m not served. I only tip when someone does something.

  • @xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    82 months ago

    15% flat always. Canada has sadly embraced tipping culture so I’ll not deny anyone the going rate or judge them at their workplace - but Vancouver is also expensive as fuck and anything over 15% starts putting meals close to the 100$ mark.

    • @makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml
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      42 months ago

      Don’t pay it. In Australia they’re trying, and I remind them they get paid well, get paid overtime, get paid a pension, and get paid more to take holidays. After being paid all that, why is the shitty machine prompting a tip?

  • kokope11i
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    52 months ago

    15-25% usually 20%. I have worked for tips so I get it.

    My wife tipped 25% at an ice cream parlor last night. Which I thought was ridiculous considering he just pulled three pints out of a freezer behind him.

    It’s too many places now.

  • Kalcifer
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    Zero. I believe that the negotiations of an employee’s market value are between the employee and their employer. I don’t believe that it is my responsibility to charitably subsidize a company through the subsidization of their employees’ wages.

    • @FromPieces@lemmygrad.ml
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      -22 months ago

      While your argument is sound, a server can’t feed their children or care for disabled parents with sound arguments and principled stances.

      • @PresidentCamacho@lemm.ee
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        22 months ago

        Yeah the idea is ultimately that you help enable the system by participating. Ultimately nothing changes by a couple cheap assholes refusing to tip like this guy, so you should, it would only work if everyone decided not to. It would force the industry to adapt.

    • @iceonfire1@lemmy.world
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      -72 months ago

      Your choice not to tip will make no difference to the company, but every difference to a person who suffers through customer service for a living.

      “I don’t want to subsidize a company” is just you inventing a convenient way to justify what is essentially theft. Why stop at not tipping? You could probably get away with stealing IDK, playground equipment too.

        • @iceonfire1@lemmy.world
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          02 months ago

          At least in the US, tipping is the accepted way that we compensate certain people for their time.

          If you habitually never tip, you are not paying for the service that you receive in good faith. This is theft of service.

          If you don’t like tipping, patronize places that include the tip in the bill. Tell restaurant owners to change their pay structure to avoid it. It won’t be changed by you individually shirking your obligation to pay.

          • @dan00@lemm.ee
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            Oh no I’m such a thief ahah don’t call the popo. I pay the service and products when I pay the bill with the agreed prices. If US companies are so broke and poor that they can’t even pay their people, they should close. I don’t beg for money when I work, disgusting.

  • zer0
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    As a transplant I refuse the whole US tipping system and stick to the way of “rounding it up”. It often ends up around 10% of the bill but % tipping seems absolutely stupid as you are being punished for buying more. A few rare times I actually tipped 20% because the service was very good. Nobody tips me on my job and on average I make less than these people so I don’t see the logical connection of this whole stupid tipping culture

  • @Zahille7@lemmy.world
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    52 months ago

    Growing up, and even after working in foodservice, I was always told to tip at least 20% (almost) regardless of service.

    There’s been maybe two times I didn’t tip 20% and the lower tip was definitely earned.

  • @CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world
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    42 months ago

    15% typically, more if it warrants it. Food keeps getting more expensive, so the percentage doesn’t have to go up.

  • @callouscomic@lemm.ee
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    2 months ago

    Americans: “I don’t care how bad the service is, you HAVE to tip a minimum amount.”

    Also Americans: “My experience at the DMV was bad. Fire all government employees!”

  • @nikosey@lemmy.world
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    42 months ago

    always 15% regardless of service. best or worst, i don’t care. im not going to judge anyone. i just want a meal and consider the 15% to be a convoluted tax for meals here in the US.