I keep hearing about how you shouldn’t laugh over your own jokes but when I watch a video or listen to a podcast, I find it much more authentic and likable when they laugh over their own jokes in a conversation. You know, vibes.

  • qyron
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    257 months ago

    If someone is about to tell me a joke and start laughing mid first sentence it’s a sign that is either going to be very good or so bad it will become good.

    Let them laugh!

    • The Dark Lord ☑️
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      87 months ago

      This right here is the best answer in my opinion. Regardless of the story, the teller is just so into it that they can’t stop laughing. You’re probably going to end up laughing with them.

  • @AbouBenAdhem@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    It depends on the joke: most are funny regardless, but for some jokes a straight/deadpan delivery is part of the humor.

  • @ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee
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    217 months ago

    As long as they’re not obnoxiously loud and saying something that’s actually funny, I think it’s completely normal. People usually say funny things that they find funny so it would be natural for them to laugh a little.

    • @JeezNutz@lemmy.ml
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      27 months ago

      I have a guy at my work who does this, he half shouts some unfunny thing like “Are you watching porn on your computer?” Then laughs really loudly while everyone else is silent.

  • M137
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    157 months ago

    You’re telling the joke because you find it funny, it’s so fucking weird that people seem to not understand that.

  • @shikitohno@lemm.ee
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    87 months ago

    It depends on why they’re laughing for me. Lots of terribly unfunny people essentially provide their own real time laugh track to signal “This is the funny part, laugh please,” which gets old real quick. They also tend to laugh incredibly hard at their own jokes, far more than is merited by the actual joke. Unfunny people trying to force a joke like that get old fast.

    On the other hand, I don’t take issue with having a bit of a laugh with everyone else when you land a good one. On rare occasion, there are even jokes that wind up funnier because they’re just so hilarious that the person telling them can hardly get them out without busting up themselves.

  • OneMeaningManyNames
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    77 months ago

    OK with laughing over your own joke, but if you burst out and are not even able to finish uttering it, then I think this is a bit childish.

  • @nutsack@lemmy.world
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    77 months ago

    I probably said the joke because I thought it was funny and so it’s really difficult not to laugh and I don’t care what anyone thinks because I’m an idiot

  • Owl
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    67 months ago

    I cannot not laugh over my own jokes

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        7 months ago

        Or any joke at all, really

        I’m constantly laughing at something and people don’t like it :(

  • @the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world
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    57 months ago

    I used to have a college professor who would always laugh at his own jokes. Always. His class only laughed maybe half the time. I didn’t mind much because he was a cool guy in general.

  • .Donuts
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    57 months ago

    I think I depends on the laugh for me. Like I don’t mind a haha this is a joke kind of laugh. But a haha omg I am the funniest person alive type of laugh would be met with some ridicule.

    Hard to I explain the difference in text, but hopefully you get the gist!

  • @it_depends_man@lemmy.world
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    37 months ago

    Humor is difficult.

    It’s tough when it’s actually a bad joke or they are telling it badly, but they find it funny.

    If it’s a genuinely funny situation / retelling, both of you laughing about the same thing and also about how the person in question is struggling to breathe because they have to laugh so much, that’s funny.

    But it really really really depends.