@Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 2 years agoWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?message-square48fedilinkarrow-up1131arrow-down16
arrow-up1125arrow-down1message-squareWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?@Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 2 years agomessage-square48fedilink
minus-square@TheImpressiveX@lemmy.mllinkfedilink7•2 years ago“I’d love to, but unfortunately I am busy tonight.”
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠linkfedilink-4•2 years agoStill kinda rude. You have to at least imply you’ll try to swing by for a short time, as a bare minimum.
minus-square@miss_brainfart@lemmy.mllinkfedilink8•2 years agoHonestly, in a situation like this, I don’t care. If I’m busy, I’m busy. And if politely telling them that is seen as rude, it’s not me who’s the problem.
“I’d love to, but unfortunately I am busy tonight.”
Still kinda rude. You have to at least imply you’ll try to swing by for a short time, as a bare minimum.
Honestly, in a situation like this, I don’t care. If I’m busy, I’m busy. And if politely telling them that is seen as rude, it’s not me who’s the problem.