I sometimes have to remind my wife to relax. The way I do it is vital. “You have done soooo much today, you need to take care of yourself. Go play xyz game and relax. I will make you a cup of tea”
just fucking ask,
“Are you ok? want to talk about it or do you want some space (bring a snack just in case)?”
We don’t need to be empaths or psychics to know what’s on other people’s minds, asking is free.
“Babe, the internet said I should ask, what game should I play?”
Tried that but she would rather make me guess because she doesn’t know either but whatever choice I make it’s guaranteed to be the wrong one
There is a correct choice, leave, you don’t have to stay with people who will make you second guess yourself then blame you when you fail to be a psychic.
