• exasperation@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    6 hours ago

    It’s fucked up, but there’s a reason why I had the best time with women who were insecure in their formative years. Even if they later realized they were beautiful they had a sense of needing to work to be desired.

    And I could be all sorts of different reasons: used to be fat, grew tall way earlier than everyone else, was the only person of their ethnic group in their school, has a prominent scar or birthmark. But their adolescent experiences helped drive their attitudes towards others, and I found it most fun to date or even befriend people who had once had something to prove.

    • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
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      3 hours ago

      Yes, same with men, the hotter the guy the more boring and less skilled he is in my experience. Like yes you’re so beautiful and have a great body etc but just looking at you isn’t really going to get me there…