do you?

  • Mothra@mander.xyz
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    Professionally? No

    As a family member or friend? Yes

    As a member of society? Barely

    What’s the context of your question?

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      The point of asking a somewhat general question is that you can answer and interpret it how you like and experience responses you wouldn’t expect.

      Which is what I got from you. By asking one question.

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        The mention of AI as an introduction suggests you may have a specific context in mind. If the question is so general, you don’t need to give irrelevant information. Asking “do you feel valued?” is enough, and the absence of context becomes obvious.

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          Then you answered incorrectly. Maybe you should have focused your response on that rather than ranting about OP post.

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    As a retired person: no, apart from by other retired people in the village, because we help each other out with our different skill-sets.

    We still have a few friends but they are scattered; we meet mostly at funerals.

    Politicians think we’re too expensive (healthcare, pensions, etc.) although they’re careful not to be too nasty, as apparently we vote more than other demographics. The fascists think we might vote for them (not a chance).

    The young are busy with their own lives as they should be and so we are mostly seen as an inconvenience or, at best, a future inheritance. I’m fine with this: they’ve got it tough and we help where we can.

    The AI crowd know we’re too old for that shit (we remember all the bubbles). We don’t buy much stuff either, so the capitalists and advertisers aren’t happy with us. The pub likes us but wishes we’d visit more often. The fund managers are going off us as our pension funds dwindle. I think the lady in the corner shop has a good opinion of us, although she thinks I buy too much beer.

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    Valued by my friends and family? Yes, very much so!

    Value by society? No, not so much, but it’s mutual.

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    No.

    I can’t find sustainable work. I don’t have a romantic partner. I’m old and now facing bleak years left on Earth.

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    Yes, outside of social media. I love my job, my friends, family and just try to enjoy my life.

    But, then I use social media like Facebook or Instagram and the algorithm is really hardcore pushing the “AI is taking over engineering is dead!!” narrative. As an engineer that makes me feel terrible/not valued, even though I know it’s not true.

    I basically just stopped using social media outside of this and reddit.

    • Crackhappy@lemmy.worldOP
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      I don’t really miss social media. Lemmy is the only thing I would even consider social media. I’ve moved all of my family over to Signal and we don’t talk much. Which is fine. We exist as a family across all time zones at times.

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    I think it is sort of sad that people took this as “valued by your employer”. Not sad for them specifically, but for the state of things. I am sure y’all are valued by your friends and family.

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    For sure. Mostly from friends and family, but also in the things I do and the projects I accomplish. It’s a wonderful life.

  • AA5B@lemmy.world
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    Literally watching a presentation right now where they quoted “Use AI intentionally, not as the only answer”

    On the other hand my human knowledge is invalidated because my kpis focus more on how frequently I use ai than on what I do

    In my real life, also mostly no. My kids are in college, so they mostly need their bills paid and I rarely see them in person

    • Crackhappy@lemmy.worldOP
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      If you were indeed a mote of dust when you got vacuumed what would happen? Fast forward to the end of time. Would it be any different than what anyone else on this planet is going to experience?

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    I’d say yes. I worked hard to be “that person” that people like and can trust and they know I’m knowledgeable in a lot of subjects. They can call me to ask questions anytime. They borrow my cars and tools. They dont take advantage of me though. Actually I wish they’d ask for help more often because I have a lot of things and skills to offer.

    Mainly I just always wanted to be likeable. I don’t enjoy being mean.

  • slazer2au@lemmy.world
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    Depends on the human.

    Work? No

    Wife? Yes
    Baby? Who knows what goes on in those things.
    Rest of the family? Quite likely.

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    Generally, yes. I spent years of quite a bit of effort to only surround myself with people who treat me as an equal & share my general values. I have to turn my brain off during serving-the-capitalists hours though.

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    I will flip your question. All this AI none sense has made me value people more.

    I value human musicians with passion and new interesting sounds; I value human visual artists and what they add to our graphical landscape I value journalists and just people putting themselves out there to share their honest opinion in a world so overtaken by propaganda and information wars; I value people who are trying to learn and teach new things, that want to do research and make sense of the world. And I value disagreeing and getting mad at people and saying dumb shit and doing dumb shit and realizing i have areas where i need to work on and improve myself. I value humans, and i wont waste my time on AI or LLM’s

    I don’t really care if I’m valued, and i don’t care about systems of values, i barely have time to make and experience.

    • Crackhappy@lemmy.worldOP
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      I don’t see the question flip. I value you. You are clearly intelligent. Tell me more about you and what is going on.