The quote you are your own worst enemy comes to mind when I think of people on Reddit, Lemmy, and in society overall if I am being honest. People are so emo, sappy, melancholy, cynical, and pessimistic.

So the picture attached to this post says it all. This guy says real life is boring. i disagree because life ISN’T boring, if you actually live it, have hobbies, enjoy learning, creating and well not being someone with a defeatist mindset.

Look how many dislikes I got for saying LIFE ISN’T BORING lol this right here is the problem. most of these people are so toxic and they have nothing else to do but bring their toxicity to things around them.

If your life is boring, it’s because you are living in a manner that isn’t enjoyable to you. Quit your shitty job and find a better one. Move to a different area if your current area it’s not pleasurable to you. Find a higher quality group of friends or become someone that can enjoy their own company. I could keep listening, but I’m not going to make this thread too long.

I’m just telling you what i find mildly infurating. The thread comments will further prove my point more than likely. Prove me wrong.

  • dohpaz42@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    12 hours ago

    I’m going to go out on a limb here and suggest maybe it’s not your view of life that’s getting downvoted, but how tone deaf you come off about how other people don’t necessarily hold your views.

    Despite having hobbies, interests, getting out and doing positive things, I myself (for example) still feel defeated. And how I feel is just as valid as how you feel. That doesn’t necessarily make me emo, sappy, melancholy, cynical, nor pessimistic. Yes I can be all or some of those things, but then again, so can you.

    So think on that before you start putting other people down for things you don’t necessarily understand.

    Ps

    The thread comments will further prove my point more than likely.

    Now who’s being pessimistic and cynical?