• Grimy@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I never felt the urge to send a pic myself like that. I even remember a girl sending me a bunch of nude photos and then messaging asking me for some of myself. I pretended I didn’t understand what she meant and played dumb. She still got to see it and all, but still.

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        4 months ago

        Huh. I’ve only been asked once. Figured it was a bit strange, gladly sent it anyway, not insecure on that issue.

        Maybe it’s an age thing? I’m GenX and nearly ever lover I’ve had is as well.

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    4 months ago

    None of the women I discuss ‘making it’ with want these sorts of pictures.

    All of the men do, badly.

    Dick pics are for dudes.

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      4 months ago

      Had dozens of lovers and only one actually asked for a dick pic. Weird, but I sent it. Got laid anyway!

  • Masterkraft0r@discuss.tchncs.de
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    4 months ago

    Well actually

    cats bring you mice because they think you are just a big cat but you’re a shit hunter. so they kinda care, in a somewhat disgusting way. In contrast people who send dick pics care mostly about themselves and are disgusting.

  • ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world
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    I bring this up every time someone says this but the reason guys do it is because it works. Not all the time but enough times that they’ll keep doing it.