• @RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      9 months ago

      People call stuff like Lemmy, 4chan or Reddit social media too but to me it’s always these Facebook or Instagram style self-presentation platforms. All of them suck ass.

        • @jjagaimo@lemmy.ca
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          79 months ago

          One thing I’m not a fan of is the argument that “it is what you make of it,” because platforms act entirely differently depending on the other users, the algorithms, methods of interaction, interface, content and culture. Its very difficult for me to to have a good time on facebook because it fails in a lot of those aspects: toxic users, algorithms tbat push nonsense, a bad interface, incompatible content and culture. The general theme is that many social media sites end up being very polarizing and echo chambery.

    • @edryd@lemmy.world
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      Envy has existed far longer than social media, none of these things would go away if social media doesn’t exist. Social media just amplifies it.

      Comparison has always been the thief of joy.

      • @kex@lemmy.world
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        18 months ago

        Yep, “keeping up with the Jones’s” was a phrase I heard growing up in the 1980s

        Also, attachment leads to suffering

    • MentalEdge
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      79 months ago

      Communication is a good thing.

      But that’s not what most social media facilitates. The mainstream platforms were about staying in touch with friends and family, once, but now they are about parasocial celebrity worship and broadcasting your life in a fake light of endless positivity. All the while secretly hating the habit of feigned contentment, never realising everyone else is doing the same.

      Social media could be about sharing our passions, forming real and meaningful connections with other individuals around the world, as well as truly coming to know ourselves as a species on a global scale.

      Some small parts of it are exactly that.

      Those are the parts I’m trying to perpetuate and nurture, and though they are a tiny part of the whole thing right now, it does mean it isn’t all bad.

  • @yumpsuit@lemmy.world
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    329 months ago

    sobbing over my phone because I couldn’t stop a friend from pairing full-bodied red wine with lobster

  • @WoahWoah@lemmy.world
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    Unless you’re a republican from South Dakota, then you shoot the dog and dump it in a gravel pit and publicize it so others can be envious of how truly American you are.

  • @Varyk@sh.itjust.works
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    sorry, drinking, can you help me out?

    the 6th panel is chubby man’s son?

    why is young couple from first panel in last panel?

    i thought it was a generational story.

    their dead brown dog is related to the white dog in panel 7?

    I’d love to know how my drank messed me up, thanks.

  • Zloubida
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    I get the idea and I like it; but please don’t put poverty in this comics. Poor people aren’t envious of richer people, they deserve to live normally.

    • @Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      139 months ago

      As someone who was poor and now is not poor, that’s bullshit. I was for sure envious of well-off folks around me. Now I absolutely don’t take it for granted.

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        It wasn’t envy. It was a normal reaction to an unjust situation.

          • Zloubida
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            39 months ago

            You’re right sorry. So it was envy. But I don’t think it’s the same kind of envy, coming from someone who also left poverty, and felt that too.

    • JoYo
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      109 months ago

      I mean, same for all the other examples.

      • Zloubida
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        39 months ago

        To loose a dog, to be overweight, to see a relationship end are sad but normal things. Poverty isn’t.

        • JoYo
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          19 months ago

          the cops shot their dog. if you are adding in your own back stories then I’ll add mine.

          • Zloubida
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            19 months ago

            I didn’t add anything. I just know how to.read an image. Elementary school stuff.

            • JoYo
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              19 months ago

              so what made you conclude poverty?

              • Zloubida
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                19 months ago

                The character is the only one with sunken cheeks; and thinness is a stereotype of poverty; the walls reveal bricks in places, so the house is not properly maintained, another stereotype; the tablecloth follows a fashion, the Vichy, dating from the 30s and associated with the elderly, and the fact of using old and/or outdated clothes/furniture/decor is yet another stereotype. For an image that has few details, that’s a lot.

    • @DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz
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      I think its a valid example though. Sometimes poor people can save up to go out once and splurge on lobster. People tend to post the highlights of their lives on social media. I think the point here is to not buy into it so much