… and why is this community against them?

  • @JeSuisUnHombre@lemm.ee
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    5510 months ago

    People have already correctly answered that in this community there are no stupid questions, you’re supposed to be able to ask anything without ridicule. But if you want to permit the general existence of stupid questions, here’s the definition I’ve always used.

    A stupid question is one you can easily answer yourself.

    As in, any question due to real lack of knowledge is not stupid, but if you can answer your own question just by thinking about it for a second, then it wasn’t necessary to ask and therefore "stupid”.

    • @ChilledPeppers@lemmy.world
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      210 months ago

      I always thought as tho the meaning of the sub name is to make fun of people who do not awnser “stupid questions” by saying that they are forbidden from the sub.

      Maybe I’m just stupid lol

      • ericatty
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        910 months ago

        This is the safe space to ask a question you have that you are afraid other people would find stupid.

        It’s especially good for things some people feel are common sense, but that others just managed to miss growing up.

        Here’s an example. My husband is really smart. But he moved schools a lot over a 3 year period. He managed to completely miss kids being taught 1 is January, 2 is February, etc for dates. He just never learned it.

        He knows his birthday in number form. But if he needs, say May 23rd in number form, he’ll look it up or ask me which number May is.

        Some people would classify that as a stupid question and be a dick about it. I just answer him. I know he’s tried to learn it, he’s just never sure if he’s right and knows I know.

        This sub operates under the good faith that there are no stupid questions, just people who legit missed something along the way.

        In life, I would argue, there are stupid questions. But for me, it’s only in situations where someone is clearly just asking questions to make you break, or clearly not listening and asking the same questions over and over without even trying to pay attention, and lastly, weaponized incompetence where people are acting like that because they don’t want to do something and won’t just say no. Basically questions that are exclusively to waste someone else’s time are the only really stupid questions irl imho

        But here, you get the benefit of the doubt if you don’t know how to properly brush your teeth, or why May is 5 and July is 7.

        I believe the name originated on reddit, and an accurate name would be “thereAreNoStupidQuestionsHere” but the shorter version is what got the brand recognition, but the confusion is understandable

  • @harrys_balzac@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3110 months ago

    This is it - the stupid question. It displays a complete lack of understanding and utter laziness.

    It’s perfect. It screams “I read the name of the community and took no other action to learn more about it before posting.”

    This is how you do it, folks

    Congratulations @frankenswine

  • The Quuuuuill
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    1710 months ago

    The only stupid questions are the ones you don’t ask. The full name of this community should be understood to be “[There are] no stupid questions”

    • ivanafterall ☑️
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      510 months ago

      But if that’s true, aren’t there infinite stupid questions, by definition? Because there are infinite unasked questions.

      • The Quuuuuill
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        510 months ago

        Yup. So go out there and make the world a smarter place by asking about things you don’t know about. Just don’t use this as a license to be a JAQ-off

  • @Donebrach@lemmy.world
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    1710 months ago

    Obvious bait

    but to answer your stupid question: Things that could be easily answered by a google search are pretty stupid to post here. The implied intention of this community, and the subreddit it was inspired by, is to provide a space for people to ask questions that don’t have an immediately identifiable and/or definite answer and require certain social understanding to navigate.

    “How many gallons of water to fill a pool?”, for example, is a question that does not belong here because you could easily find that info using a search engine (or even better, your pool’s owner’s manual).

    “How do you know when you’ve been swindled?” is something that does belong however, because it’s asking for personal experience to help navigate a situation that cannot be provided by a search engine.

    • @Pilferjinx@lemmy.world
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      210 months ago

      See, I don’t need the answer to how many gallons of water to fill a pool so I won’t bother looking it up. But if someone replied I’d read it out of curiosity and be better for it. Discussions aren’t just 1 on 1 dialogos, they’re broad and general to a broad and general audience.

  • @dQw4w9WgXcQ@lemm.ee
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    1510 months ago

    I’ll have a go at this.

    “No stupid questions” is something I think is applicable to any attempt at gaining knowledge, insight or perspective. “How big helicopter would you need to hoist an ice cube to the sun to extinguish it?” Though absurd, there might be a disconnect of knowledge, and the question reveals other things which could be explained.

    To me, a stupid question would be some kind of rhetoric which doesn’t seek information, but instead attempts to redicule and push own standpoints or beliefs. “Have you gotten over that religious faith yet?” or “Do you realize how dumb your political views are?”. These are examples of ineffective and condescending and will likely just leave the other person with reinforced standpoints in addition to annoyance. I find that to be a stupid approach and thus a stupid question.

    I don’t really know, but it’s my gut feeling.

    • TheOneCurly
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      710 months ago

      The helicopter example sounds like it would make for a great What If?. There’s so many good things in there I want answered.

  • @Nikls94@lemmy.world
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    1010 months ago

    Well…

    “Do women also shake off the fuel hose after they’re done or is it just male habit?”

    • would be a stupid question
  • @eronth@lemmy.world
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    610 months ago

    Once someone asked if Stephen and Stephen were pronounced the same. Presumably they meant “Steven” for one of those, but the question as written was dumb.

  • FuglyDuck
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    410 months ago

    There’s no such thing as a stupid question.

    Just a lot of inquisitive idiots.

  • @thenextguy@lemmy.world
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    410 months ago

    A stupid question is a question directed at stupid, or about stupid, or referring to stupid.

    So please, no stupid questions.

  • Lvxferre [he/him]
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    10 months ago

    [Personal view] A stupid question is typically one that has a built-in assumption or fallacy. For example, your question in the title isn’t stupid, until we include the body of the post; the body of the post contains an assumption (that this comm is against stupid questions, when the name of the comm instead conveys “no questions are stupid”), so it makes the question stupid.

    So, oddly enough, the part of the question that might make it stupid is not the question itself.

    Side note every bloody body does some damn stupid questions once in a while. So don’t take this “you’re question is of stupid!” as personal criticism. i.e. I could be the one asking the stupid question instead and I’m aware of this.