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minus-square@morrowind@lemmy.mllinkfedilink3•2 days agoIt’s not that bad for me, but fear of being perceived, fear of being know… It’s all a giant mess
minus-square@Viskio_Neta_Kafo@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglish3•edit-22 days agoFor me at least I think has is something like: If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
minus-square@notanapple@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglish2•1 day agoExactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that. I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.
minus-square@morrowind@lemmy.mllinkfedilink4•2 days agoHonestly I prefer to be perceived as a little weird, because then you can be… A little weird without worrying about it. There isn’t really a what to what I’m afraid of. I’m not sure if it’s better or worse this way
It’s not that bad for me, but fear of being perceived, fear of being know… It’s all a giant mess
For me at least I think has is something like:
If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
Exactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that.
I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.
Honestly I prefer to be perceived as a little weird, because then you can be… A little weird without worrying about it.
There isn’t really a what to what I’m afraid of. I’m not sure if it’s better or worse this way