@VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world • 3 days agoWhat were you surprised to learn wasn't actually normal?message-square254fedilinkarrow-up1258arrow-down13
arrow-up1255arrow-down1message-squareWhat were you surprised to learn wasn't actually normal?@VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world • 3 days agomessage-square254fedilink
minus-square2ugly2livelinkfedilink4•2 days agoSame! I don’t know why, but it’s like, “they were nice… I can never come here again.”
minus-square@morrowind@lemmy.mllinkfedilink3•2 days agoIt’s not that bad for me, but fear of being perceived, fear of being know… It’s all a giant mess
minus-square@Viskio_Neta_Kafo@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglish3•edit-22 days agoFor me at least I think has is something like: If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
minus-square@notanapple@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglish2•1 day agoExactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that. I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.
minus-square@morrowind@lemmy.mllinkfedilink4•2 days agoHonestly I prefer to be perceived as a little weird, because then you can be… A little weird without worrying about it. There isn’t really a what to what I’m afraid of. I’m not sure if it’s better or worse this way
Same! I don’t know why, but it’s like, “they were nice… I can never come here again.”
It’s not that bad for me, but fear of being perceived, fear of being know… It’s all a giant mess
For me at least I think has is something like:
If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
Exactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that.
I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.
Honestly I prefer to be perceived as a little weird, because then you can be… A little weird without worrying about it.
There isn’t really a what to what I’m afraid of. I’m not sure if it’s better or worse this way