I mean, I’ll take what I can get (short term, long term). As I said I have never had any sort of relationship to speak of so I wouldn’t really know. But casual sex would be best for me as things are now.

but then what is your actual challenge here?

I don’t know, that’s a good question. How to convey that to the other person, I guess?

Okay, clearly you’re at the end of your rope here. And I thank you for sticking around for as long as you could.

What about if you don’t want anything too serious?

Flirting is just friendly chatting.

Wait, so how is that different with friends??

Do you have to be friends first before you flirt? (I feel like a damn toddler or alien, asking these questions. 😅)

Ask out your crushes instead of trying to force a crush on someone you’re not attracted to.

So you just, ask them out? Do you need to behave any differently as you would with a friend?

Have you ever experienced sexual attraction?

Yeah, like a ton actually. Sorry I forgot to mention I do in fact develop feelings for people.

Edit: I added it to the description now

Okay I probably should’ve mentioned this. I most certainly do and can develop feelings for people but I just don’t know how to (for lack of a better word) make others see me for more than just a friend.

Edit: Okay it’s edited into the description now.

Rape can also happen between consenting people as well. In fact, quite a lot of what is and should be considered sexual assault/rape, is a partner “going too far” or doing something their consenting partner didn’t consent to.

Say one partner (A) did something to partner (B) which B did not consent to initially. B says this to partner A afterwards to which she replies “Sorry, but I was really close.” But she sort of promised to not do it again. What would you make of that?

I knew this post wouldn’t be a very “positive” one. But man that’s messed up. I think I understand now.

Thank you for your advice! The dance party was a ton of fun and I danced with lots of different people!

Just remember that standing around and not talking to anyone is as much a choice as going up to someone and asking for a dance.

This one in particular really stuck with me. And I was surprised how much truth there was to this line ^^