The opposite also works: ask someone for a small favor, and they’ll be more kindly disposed to you in the future. You’ve made being kind to you a part of their identity and behavior.
It started small. “Can I have something to eat?”, “Can you take me to the doctor?”, “Could you change my diaper?”, next thing I know I’m paying college tuition.
The opposite also works: ask someone for a small favor, and they’ll be more kindly disposed to you in the future. You’ve made being kind to you a part of their identity and behavior.
A bunch of people used this on me.
It started small. “Can I have something to eat?”, “Can you take me to the doctor?”, “Could you change my diaper?”, next thing I know I’m paying college tuition.