• tacosanonymous@mander.xyz
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    2 months ago

    As a particularly awkward child, I only learned that you could share each others’ business. Shit stopped pretty quickly when I talked about theirs.

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      2 months ago

      My mom learned this lesson after she told people about my sister-in-law’s miscarriage. My mom wondered why I didn’t send her get well wishes and I was like, “Well, I wasn’t supposed to know about it in the first place, since sis-in-law didn’t tell me she was pregnant. So messaging her about it wouldn’t be very tactful.”

      It took many years and being kept from a lot of information, but she’s finally learning.

  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    When I describe my 10 year old life to other folks they tell me I was an abused child.

    Mostly because I spent a lot of time out in the woods with my friends and playing video games, and apparently that’s ‘abuse/neglect’ by today’s standards for children. I was supposed to be doped up on meds and have every moment of my childhood filled with ‘productive activities’. Probably why I am not depressed and anxious like many of my peers.

    Apparently letting your children have unsupervised unstructured time is child abuse now.