• RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    11 hours ago

    While not everyone should have kids and I fully support people choosing not to have any…

    You can have this and have kids. Just not every day. Unless you’re stupid wealthy and have a nanny or something.

    But maybe I’m weird and am one of the few that actually like my kids and having them around. Sure, they can be a pain in the ass sometimes, but not so much that I want to escape them or anything.

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      11 hours ago

      If you’re stupidly wealthy to have this daily? Kids are irrelevant.

      Reality is, people chronically online are incapable of raising a child because the reality is, they can’t imagine caring for someone other than themselves.

      Having a child to share your hobbies is awesome. You ever needed a coop buddy? They got you covered for years and years!

  • Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works
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    18 hours ago

    Eating a multi course breakfast like this in bed would be both gross and inconvenient, let’s not lie to ourselves.

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      18 hours ago

      I put those puppies training pads in my bed so I can catch the syrup I drip and that sticks to my fingers after.

      I’m okay with croissant crumbs on my pillow, it detracts from the feeling of my eye boogers.

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    17 hours ago

    One thing that no one ever told me about being a parent was that it would be so much fun. Getting to be the one who introduces another human to everything doesn’t get old. Is it challenging? Of course, but everything in life has pros and cons. The bond I have with the little ones is something I’d never give up and life before was easy-mode. You do have to grow beyond being selfish though. Some people can’t (and that’s okay, they shouldn’t be parents). That’s what this picture makes me think.

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      14 hours ago

      Yeah, I tell my kids all the time that without winter, summer just isn’t as enjoyable, and that even in late August and early September I’ll say, you know what, I’m ready to change it up. I don’t have this expectation of perfection from any facet of life, including my kids and the relationship I have with them. The bads and the goods are all part of the experience, and to me the experience is rewarding.

      But I absolutely don’t fault someone for wanting perpetual summer. Summer is great.

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    17 hours ago

    Every time I see one of these posts, it reads like ‘I can’t have kids because that would get in the way of my wanking and smoking pot time’ I mean, it is all good but it’s never ‘my job is very demanding and it would stop me from being able to parent’ or something.

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    18 hours ago

    Shared happiness is double happiness. My son would love this.

    I wish antinatalists the help that they need.

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      15 hours ago

      The way you think about others that don’t think the same way you do is pretty shitty.

      I feel bad for how you must raise your child.

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      16 hours ago

      This is some bless-your-heart level of passive aggressive, lol. I don’t think our society deserves any more bodies. And I am not selfish enough to foist this on another being just for my own gratification.

    • AndyMFK@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      16 hours ago

      The implication is to have breakfast in bed with your partner, not alone

      As an antinatalist, I assure you the parents need a lot more help than us (and they’re not shy about asking for it)