The women’s shelter likely needs volunteer work done that’s not specifically at the shelter. This would be a good way for him to volunteer.
Generally, you’re not going to find random men actually volunteering AT the shelter; that would be triggering for some of the abused women who pass through it.
Make sure he has his criminal records check up to date.
Lol I don’t know if it counts he has 6 dwi’s and 1 dui. He now is Arkansas clean, where he quit all hard alcohol and wine and not just drinks about an 8 pack a night but never gets out of control in the bad days. Hasn’t had a DWI or DUI in 6 years.
he quit all hard alcohol and wine and not just drinks about an 8 pack a night
…is that not borderline alcoholic? And also a ton of calories?
Oh hell yea it is the freaking asshole. He wakes up at 4 in the morning goes for a jog hits the gym till 10.
Dude needs to work on himself before trying this.
He’s going nowhere near a women’s shelter without a cr check.
I’m a guy and inquired at my local women’s shelter. I was told that they’ll always need help moving families out of their homes. So, there’s that. He can be a mover.
Has he said why specifically why he wants to volunteer at a women’s shelter?
I think it is because I was raped when I was straight by my fiance and didn’t tell one and they blame themselves for not spotting the signs until I told them a couple years later. He says he just wants to give something back instead of get something back.
Cant hurt to call and ask but that might be a sensitive thing. Why a woman’s shelter specifically?
Because I had an abusive relationship when I was straight and would get constantly raped by my fiance and I never told anyone until years after it ended. My brothers kind of feel responsible so I guess this is their way of correcting a long ago wrong.
A woman’s shelter is not his personal tool. Tell him to stay the fuck away from this stupid and destructive idea.
Or a less douchey version is …. While this may be well intentioned, it’s really not going to work and he needs to find another way to contribute
I think a more direct approach is necessary for someone so delusional and self-centered.
