Like how we all face the door in an elevator or feel the need to say ‘ope’ when we almost bump into someone. What’s a silent rule of society that you find hilarious or totally unnecessary?

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    I say gesundheit as I’m not religious and don’t like to propagate religious sentiment, but I like the idea, too. I’m not German.

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      Religious idioms are everywhere in language, and it is seriously not a problem. We can talk about a storm of “biblical” proportions, or say hubris is inviting god’s wrath, or whatever, and none of it is condoning any actual religious belief. Plenty of people celebrate Christmas because they like family and togetherness and indulgent consumerism, even if they don’t consider themselves Christian. And like, one of my favorite explitives is Jesus Fucking Christ.

      Just saying gesundheit is, like, fine. But your explaination reminds me of the people who tried to make latinx a thing. Heavy eyeroll

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        Hispanic non binary people around me have referred to themselves as Latin (la-teen)

        Is that also cringe?

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          No, that makes sense since it is actually pronounceable, and has been created organically by people who are actually experiencing a problem, instead of 14 year olds on Tumblr

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      I say gelassenheit as I’m not superstitious and don’t like to propagate superstitious sentiment. I’m also not German.

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      Funnily enough, it is not universally agreed on in German to say “Gesundheit”.
      Many don’t do it any more (me included), because it is a comment on an uncontrolled body function and thus pretty intrusive.

      Exception to this may be people who are really close to you.