• Abundance114@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    Shower thought - If we all commit suicide; we can end suicide forever. /s, I’m just kidding. Poor taste?

  • FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world
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    8 days ago

    Can you blame them?

    The US is a fucking hellscape

    I spend quite a bit of time there. I’m over several times a year and I genuinely don’t know how people can live like that

    There’s a constant thin thread of fear, wrapped around everything, running through everything

    People are afraid of the people around them. They’re afraid of their government, they’re afraid of the people who are supposed to be there to protect them, they’re afraid of their employers, they’re afraid of the unknown

    I’m very careful not to take my charmed life for granted

    • NorthwestThrills@lemmy.world
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      7 days ago

      Not to mention, people around the world seem to be pretty hostile to Americans right now, no matter who they are, and say they deserve it.

      • FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world
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        7 days ago

        Absolute twaddle.

        Most of us in the civilised world pity Americans

        We understand that there are systemic problems that individuals can’t be held responsible for, unless they have chosen to be a part of the problem

        It’s the obnoxious ones who expect the we give a fuck that they’re yanks that have a hard time, regardless of their politics

        The ones who travel wearing Trump hats or otherwise forcing their idiotic politics into things reap what they sow

    • pipi1234@lemmy.world
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      8 days ago

      Right?!

      Now that the 2° admentment reason for having guns is totally debunked, the only reason for everyone to have guns is to live in constant fear of being shot or having to shot someone else.

      Having to chose between feeding your children and getting life saving medical treatment is a very real choice most Americans can be confronted with.

      Etc etc etc…

      Turns out USA is only the best country in the world for rich people and paedophiles…

    • just_ducky_in_NH@lemmy.world
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      8 days ago

      You mean it’s not like that everywhere? Seriously, are there still countries where you can feel safe in your day-to-day life?

      • FistingEnthusiast@lemmy.world
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        8 days ago

        I seldom lock my doors, and even if I lock the front door, the back door is always open for my dog to go in and out as he pleases

        I never worry about being hit, and firearm crime here is vanishingly rare

        Nowhere is perfect. My nearest pub isn’t the sort of place if ever go because the regulars are morons, but I live somewhere peaceful and serene

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        Yes, and it’s kinda worrying to me you have to ask. But there are absolutely places where you don’t live in the fear the next person is trying to fuck you over or harm you

      • Yawweee877h444@lemmy.world
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        F that. Blaming everything on smartphones and social media is a copout and just wrong. If anything, the smartphone and social media is showing more people that they’re not going to be able to escape the capitalist rat race, and will never be able to make it big as an entertainer, influencer, or whatever else has a luxurious easy way of life.

        I was afraid of the system before it was cool. Afraid of getting laid off. Afraid my landlord was going to raise rent on an already overpriced POS rental. Afraid I won’t have enough to retire. Afraid of getting asked to work overtime and afraid I’d get fired if I refused.

        This crony capitalism sucks ass by design. Social media has a lot of beautiful people living lives most of us can only dream about, while many of us toil at 9to5’s we hate. Everythings more expensive. No rule of law for the most elite and powerful people in this country. They rape children and steal all our tax money and get away with it.

        It ain’t social medias fault. Social media is helping to show many how much their life sucks and there’s no hope. The people supposed to be fighting for us aren’t doing shit. The checks and balances don’t work. People are seeing that this whole USA freedom nonsense was a complete fucking lie.

        • Tedesche@lemmy.world
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          There’s a growing body of scientific evidence that social media use contributes to depression, anxiety, and suicide in various ways. People here are playing touting their armchair psychology but this stuff has been studied by actual psychologists and sociologists. You can easily look it up.

      • grue@lemmy.world
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        8 days ago

        “Ignorant people are less fearful” is such a nonsensical shit take.

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    8 days ago

    My daughter is 15. She hates guns. Hates being around them, the sound, the idea of harm, etc. 4 weeks ago she came crying afraid for her friends and ICE. Last week she told me she wanted to learn to shoot. (I inherited a lot of guns. I bought a few myself. I come from a conservative family and I am the black sheep, the one that “changed”.) Still trying to get ahold of someone from Blazing Sword as an instructor. I want her to learn from someone with actual teaching instruction, rather than backwoods learning that I got.

    Kids are terrified. Schools are scary, the law is scary, the dungeon dwelling creeps are now villified. I can see why suicide is increasing.

    • potoooooooo ✅️@lemmy.world
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      My teenage daughter and her friends were planning a walk out at school to protest ICE. She texted me that the school administrators and “resource officers” (aka cops in schools) physically blocked all the exits so nobody could leave.

      • JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca
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        Dude shut the fuck up. You think the kids of conservative families aren’t learning how to shoot younger than 15? It’s time to wake up and realize that firearms training and discipline is going to soon be boon to those who have it.

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          I know several people who have died from firearms including family members. Gun obsessed morons have lead to more deaths than every single loss in every single war in US history in the last thirty years. The only person who should shut the fuck up is you.

  • MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz
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    Among 10-14 year-olds?

    At that age, your biggest problem should be losing a video game save file, or at worst losing your first pet. All while still surrounded by loving and supportive adults.

    What the hell are we doing?

  • lastlybutfirstly@lemmy.world
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    I blame commercials and PSAs. I stopped watching TV in the mid-2000s and have ad blocker online. Watching TV today is like stepping back into Plato’s Cave. You don’t realize how psychologically damaging commercials are.

    As an example, a few years ago I watched a live stream of the local news during a weather event with ads that couldn’t be blocked. Four hours later, I had seen the same commercial for an HIV drug at least 8 times. I had the thing memorized and I was very, very aware of HIV all day as it replayed in my brain. I don’t ever think about HIV. But I was forced to. I’m usually happy go lucky but after that ad, and other ads for a myriad of other drugs for diseases, plus PSAs reminding me how my life is a vicious jungle with death just a step away, I felt pretty bummed. Some of those PSAs are down right mean spirited.

    Without ads, I can control my exposure to the horrors of the world. With ads, you’re at the mercy of the station or website drowning you in human misery. There probably needs to be a law to limit those kind of commercials. Like one PSA a week and one pharmaceutical commercial a day.

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      Agree, but I don’t think it’s limited to ads or PSAs, I think everyone with empathy is having a real hard time, because the news and the internet is constantly making them aware of, just, awful things. War and famine abroad and at home, all while like, 800 people in the world sit atop mountains of gold, doing absolutely everything in their power to destroy the planet and subvert democracy. We’ve been past the climate change “tipping point” for YEARS, and we’re still growing our oil and gas consumption. Anybody that cares about peoples suffering, is going to suffer, because we can’t empathise with everyone, everywhere, all at once. And yet, that’s what we’re asked to do, everytime we see the news. We’re still trying to play todays game by yesterdays rules.

      The reality of the situation is that in the lifetime of your child, they will see complete economic and agricultural collapse. Why do you think that syphilitic pedo rapist wants Greenland so bad? Because projections show that giant iceball is going to be our best farmland in 60 years. Meanwhile any nations near the equator will be absolutely fucked. Chemical manufacturers in the US have so captured the government, that they’ve been poisoning all your water and food for decades without as much as a peep from regulators. Gotta get that new glyphosate weed and bug killer! nevermind it’s been banned by almost every country except our dumbasses.

      if this were minecraft, I’d say that all we really need to do to save our species, is kill about 3-400 billionaires, redistribute their wealth, put a blanket moratorium on oil and gas usage, transitioning the worlds fleet of cars to electric (or just abandoning them all together in favor of trains), and establishing a one world government. Just think of the amount of artistic and scientific endeavors we could achieve if man were allowed the freedom to breathe and live. Imagine if you had universal healthcare, universal pre-k and daycare, imagine if you were given a 4 year college education just as a matter of course. Imagine if rent control existed, and a universal basic income to allow you a basic standard of living. Imagine how much happier you would be.

      Hey, we’re only like 3-400 billionaires deaths away from achieving it.

      …in minecraft

    • EightBitBlood@lemmy.world
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      That’s part of it. Never earning enough to live is the other. The economic disparity in the US is greater than it was before the French Revolution. No matter how hard younger generations work, they can’t earn money at a rate that exceeds price inflation and experience. 60% of this country is doomed to never get ahead and the other 40% just don’t realize it’s so bad for everyone else they’re killing themselves.

    • SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world
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      It also goes the other way. I was watching a documentary on youtube on some ugly historical subject and I’d get these happy go lucky ads in the middle of it. “Uhhh, you want to associate your product with this?”

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    My roommate [content warning]

    spoiler

    just took his own life a few weeks ago. I had no idea what he was going through because we lived very separate lives. He always seemed like he was doing OK, but in the note he left he spoke of hiding mental health issues from me because he didn’t want to stress me out while I was dealing with my own shit. I wish I could go back and tell him to bother me.

    This shit is really happening, and it’s hitting all age brackets. Even if you think someone is doing OK, it’s fine just to check on them. “Hey, how are you?” Be sincere. Don’t hit them with the “What’s up?” Everyone has a preprogrammed response. But give them eye contact and a genuine tone. It’s not something you’ll ever regret.

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    7 days ago

    Boils down to US labor laws, healthcare, maternity leave for both parents and income distribution.

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    Something critical to note is that help is not really out there. This is the kind of news article that usually gets people to post 988, but if you’ve called 988 you know how much of a joke it is. They will “triage” you, where you either get the cops called to take you to hell/inpatient or you spend half an hour plus on hold for someone to say “sorry that sucks :(“

    Inpatient institutionalize increase suicide rates after release. You get maybe fifteen minutes of actual “treatment” while the rest of it is being treated like a criminal. Good luck keeping your job after disappearing three days without being allowed to access your phone!

    It amazes me when I see TikToks and videos from patients in inpatient facilities in other countries. In the US, wanting to kill yourself means that you are a horrible criminal and you will be punished for it.

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      I went to the hospital with ideation once, told them I had the plan, the means, and the desire. I was drunk as shit, which tended to be the times I was most suicidal. The intake guy was like… let’s just sober up a bit, you don’t want to be here, you’re not suicidal. Told me how bad it would get if they admitted me. For a while after that I was pretty pissed that he basically turned me back out coldly, then after time I realized he saved me a huge cost and burden. He was right.

      You know what stopped the suicidal thoughts tho, getting sober, and having a kid slammed the whole book shut. I actually had to hit a therapist up because my only real coping skill was contemplating suicide, had to learn others.

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      This is true in many places outside US as well. Combined with the complete taboo and unwillingness to understand plus the horrible toxicity you see in some of these comments as well, it’s no wonder people (who might need it) don’t get help.

  • Absurdly Stupid @lemmy.world
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    We weren’t evolved for this.

    For thousands of years we were hunters and farmers and such, working hard in the summer and hibernating in the winter, saving night time for relaxation and fun (yes I am vastly simplifying and am aware of the exceptions).

    So of course people are freaking miserable as drones for the 24-365 corporate hive.

    BUT PROFITS ARE UP, UP, UP! STOCK MARKET 50k BABY

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    In 2023, suicide rates were highest among 85+ and among men.

    Rates are also rising among rural white men.

    • Easy access to firearms. Men are more likely to use a gun than woman though this is changing.
    • Social isolation. Worse in rural areas and among single men.
    • Old social nets like church and fraternities are shrinking. Black men in rural areas are more likely to attend church where social support is available.
    • Lack of mental health care. Men are less likely to seek out mental health care even when it is available.
    • Financial stress (job loss, status loss, pressure)
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      Old social nets like church and fraternities are shrinking. Black men in rural areas are more likely to attend church where social support is available.

      As an atheist this is pretty much the one thing I think religion is good for. A sense of community for those who attend regularly.

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        I think the other good thing it’s for is controlling the village idiots. Now it just empowers them.

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    7 days ago

    Epstein did not kill himself. Nor did Seth Rich or Deborah Palfrey, Micheal Hastings, or Marilyn Monroe. really…