I feel so trapped without a driving license… can’t go anywhere…

I think everyone has a driver’s license at 16 here in the US, but I’m already over 18 with no license… :(

  • Sequentialsilence@lemmy.world
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    28 days ago

    14, rural communities have different rules I guess. My grandpa at 6 put me behind the wheel of his F350 while pulling a 20’ trailer so he could stand in the trailer and buck hay for all the livestock.

    So by the time I got my license I already knew how to control a car and just had to learn the rules of the road.

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    27 days ago

    I got my licence 2 years ago at 35! I initially tried at 16 but my mother was just horrible to drive with and scared me off learning for a long time. When I actually got it I did lessons with an instructor for a long time and that was much better for building my confidence.

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    In my 30s and never learnt, didn’t have the money so just continued to walk or cycle around. Plus I could cycle anywhere I wanted to go anyway, why spend multiple £1000s to cut 5 minutes off the time it takes to get to Tesco?

    I grew up in a small town (15k people) so everything was fairly close. Could probably walk across the whole town in 15-20 mins. Now live in a large town (80k) so cycling is more necessary as walking across town can take almost an hour.

    Looking at all the stress cars cause other people I am actually happy as I am. Listening to people complain extensively about problems caused by cars and I just nod along. That car stole your space again, tight fitting in that space, your car is too big but apparently that is someone else’s fault, everyone else is driving too slow or too dangerously. Driving looks so fucking boring too, looking at the car in front of you as no one is moving and you are surrounded by a sea of concrete. Fuck that, walking or cycling down the old railway surrounded by trees and bushes is so much better.

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    28 days ago

    I didn’t get mine until 24. Lived in a city with public transport from 18-26.

    I was late to riding a bike, too, though. I didn’t pick that up until 18.

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    I didn’t get mine till 18, even though I went through my schools driving program at 16.

    Its nothing to be embarrassed about! I literally didn’t know that vehicles would slowly move themselves when in drive until the first time I got behind the wheel in the driving school lol.

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    Late 30s ~ early 40s. From a school as it is mandatory here with twelve hours of theory and 16 hours of practice classes, followed by two years of probation with zero tolerance ABV and maximum of four demerit points.

    I had probably close to 100,000km of experience on the road as a cyclist before that.

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    Was driving my dad home from the bar at 13. School permit at 14 that let me drive to school and work. Drivers license at 16. Drivers education course was offered in our middle school/high school (grades 7-12 in the building).

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    I got mine at 24.

    My parents flat refused to allow me to get a driver’s license, I assume because it would have given me the freedom to leave their house under my own power. I didn’t end up getting one until after I went to and came back from college.

    I learned from a driving school, since my parents seemed uninterested in teaching me.

    The experience of trying to hold a job or get to and from class between the ages of 18-24 is one of the primary experiences driving me to the idea that American public transportation sucks absolute asshole and desperately needs improvement. It used to take me two and a half hours to get to work. My work was a 15 minute drive from my house, but since my wonderful father refused to drive me to and from work, I would have to take a bus all the way across town to the central station and then hop another bus to take me all the way back across town to damn near the same place I got picked up at.

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    Learner’s at 15, license at 16… Crucial skill for an adult. Def go finish getting it. I learned through my school.

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    28 days ago
    1. I find it insane that you’re allowed to drive full sized cars at highway speeds at 16 without adult supervision.

    Practiced with my dad mostly. Drove from and to skiing practice. Had 6 lessons with an instructor, which is very low apparently.

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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    I took driving school at 14, parents also tutored me. Got my learner’s and six months later my limited operator’s license (IDK if other states do this, but SD used to let 14- and 15-year-olds drive alone but only during daylight hours). Got my full license at 16.

    I don’t use it. I rarely drive. I grew up getting around by bicycle, and I still do at 40. You can go places with a bike you can’t in a car, and you’ll have more fun getting there, and be in a better mood when you get there.

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    I learned to drive in high school, but never bothered getting a license until after I graduated college and got a job, so maybe 22? I’ve commuted via train for over 20 years now though, rarely drive.

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    Like 14. Was driving at probably 11 ish? Just cane natural. Played a shit ton of racing games as a kid ha

    Don’t worry, i know a kid who’s 23 and has mever driven. Id recommend you learn though, its a good skill to know.

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    I got mine when I was 26 after doing on and off lessons and other practice for nearly 10 years. I learned most of it from lessons so neither.