I trust my friends and our friendship, some of them has anxiety that make it very stressful to reach out, luckily I don’t so I don’t mind keeping in touch for both our sake.
Not everything need to be an exchange and there’s no need to constantly second guess our relationships.
the key word here is “some”, having a couple friends who you know struggle with it isn’t the same thing as being surrounded by people who never initiate contact.
You can’t expect someone to prop up most of their relationships, that’s a nutso amount of effort.
I trust my friends and our friendship, some of them has anxiety that make it very stressful to reach out, luckily I don’t so I don’t mind keeping in touch for both our sake.
Not everything need to be an exchange and there’s no need to constantly second guess our relationships.
the key word here is “some”, having a couple friends who you know struggle with it isn’t the same thing as being surrounded by people who never initiate contact.
You can’t expect someone to prop up most of their relationships, that’s a nutso amount of effort.