Right now the user count Lemmys is comparatively tiny when held up against reddit - but the user count isn’t the thing that makes a social media site, it’s the engagement

So even if you’re used to lurking, try to get a little more active! Post memes, vote on posts, talk in the comments, whatever!

If people come here and see activity, content, and discussions, they’re more likely to stay and contribute their own - if they come and see a ghost town, they’ll just go back to reddit

  • Nathan Campos
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    202 years ago

    I won’t lie, if you look at my Reddit profile you’ll see that I’ve commented more here in the last couple of days than probably the last 3 years on Reddit. The community just feels more welcome and I feel as if my comment will get read instead of being drowned out as it happens on Reddit.

    • @Debs@lemmy.ml
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      122 years ago

      Same. Always kinda talked myself out of commenting on reddit because my comments would never be engaged with. Felt like I missed the boat there. Time to start over and build a new community.

      • @Manticore@beehaw.org
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        92 years ago

        Either it doesn’t get engaged with, or the people who engage with it have the reading comprehension of a carrot.

        I noticed you didn’t explicitly say in your post that you don’t kick puppies, so let me assume that you believe that is acceptable and then vividly describe what a horrible person you are. Also,

        Time to start over

        …now that I’ve pulled a tiny portion of comment out of context to make it easier to attack, how dare you.

        • @HarvesterOfEyes@lemmy.ml
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          52 years ago

          Yep, felt the same way on reddit. Sometimes, I started writing a comment but then halfway through I thought to myself “can I really muster the energy to engage with people who just skim through it or aggressively pick it apart and write an essay on how right they are with sources either taken out of their ass or taken out of context just to suit their viewpoints?”. So I just ended up deleting it and go back to lurking.

        • @longshaden@beehaw.org
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          42 years ago

          hol’ up, comparing their reading comprehension to that of a carrot is an unfair insult to the average carrot.

          and how exactly is the comparison? is it one carrot per person, or can a single carrot out-comprehend the whole lot?

      • @its4am@lemmy.ml
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        42 years ago

        My comment would either get overlooked or it was literally walking on eggshells. Make an innocuous remark that somehow gets taken out of context and say hello to the downvotes.

      • @tyler@discuss.tchncs.de
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        12 years ago

        Usually with Reddit you gotta be there early in a post to get interacted with. If it’s 5-6 hours since the post was made you’re only likely to get a few scattered upvotes.

        • @mobiuscoffee@sh.itjust.works
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          12 years ago

          It felt a bit off at first to not have the top comments all be the ones with the most votes, but I like how it works on lemmy after spending time here.

          You can join an old thread and not feel like it’s pointless to add to the discussion!

  • @solidstate@feddit.de
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    192 years ago

    I feel reminded of the old days of the internet. It is invigorating discovering this Fediverse. Everything feels a lot more engaged than Reddit. I think it may be a good thing if this does not “take off” completely.

    • ultra
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      122 years ago

      I’m Gen Z and never got to experience the old internet, but I have seen old posts on stuff like Google Groups and mail lists. The fediverse has a similar vibe, and I like it

      • @its4am@lemmy.ml
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        52 years ago

        I first got online back in 1995 via dial up. My ISP charged by the minute and using the internet meant hogging the phone line, which my parents weren’t too happy with. So how ever long I managed to use the internet back then felt like a privilege.

      • @Borgzilla@lemmy.ca
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        32 years ago

        What I enjoyed the most about the old web were the portals. There were video game-specific portals, band-specific portals, etc. Portals usually included a forum, a front page with the latest news, and downloadable contents (wallpapers, files, etc). Also, the web was mostly made up of personal websites which all looked different from each other.

        Something less talked about is how prevalent viruses and trojans were back then. If you were tech-savvy enough, you could create your own ‘trojan’ and infect someone with it. The infected computer could then be controlled remotely via client program. Fun times.

    • @paperclip@lemmy.ca
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      2 years ago

      definitely agree, though the way that lemmy isn’t overseen by a single entity would likely mitigate some of the negative effects in my opinion. but there’s definitely a sweet spot between inactive and dead communities and ones which are too active, in a way i tend to not be a fan of (thinking of mainstream subs like r/funny and r/askreddit’s quality drop). in any case though, if an instance you’re in gets too mainstream for your liking, you can just hop over to a new, smaller instance/community and join local groups they have there for similar interests ¯\(ツ)

      • @solidstate@feddit.de
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        22 years ago

        Yes, I am intrigued how this will turn out. I think I see potential in the federated approach in this regard.

  • @golden_zealot@lemmy.ml
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    162 years ago

    Definitely. Everyone on Lemmy at this time seems very reasonable as well and I am finding that the discussion is typically of a much higher quality than on Reddit, so for those who don’t usually engage, try it, it’s definitely worth a shot here.

  • @jatt@lemmy.ml
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    152 years ago

    Made an account 22 hours ago, been lurking around here and there, finally decided to post my first comment after reading this post. I’d like to get more involved, just trying to find my footing first. Speaking of - what app(s) is everyone using? I’m on Android, and just logged into Jerboa. Decent UI, not a fan of the flashing screen during transitions. Any recommendations on other apps? Thanks.

    • @laxe@lemmy.ca
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      42 years ago

      I’m using Firefox on mobile. A dedicated app would be cool but the web experience is really nice, much better than reddit’s mobile site.

      • @llii@feddit.de
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        42 years ago

        Im too using Firefox (on iOS). Even if it’s not comparable to a native app, it’s quite nice.

    • @Moonguide@lemmy.ml
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      42 years ago

      On Jerboa as well. Had downloaded lemmur before but that app seems dead. Have you set your phone on dark mode? I don’t have those same issues you’re having regarding transitions.

    • Amir
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      42 years ago

      The Jerboa app seams to be in active developement. So i am optimistic for various improvements shall arrive in the future. You can observe it on their GitHub page.

  • Lucy🔸🔸🔸
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    152 years ago

    Ok here’s a meme that is unrelated to anything we’re discussing but always cracks me up:

  • OrakMoya
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    152 years ago

    I lurk most of the time because most of the time i have nothing to say

    • @Reeek@beehaw.org
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      72 years ago

      I lurk mostly because I feel like its pointless to comment in places with already thousands of them. Someone has likely already shared/commented what I’m thinking about but I need to snap out of that here. At least till this place takes off

      • DavyWavy
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        22 years ago

        I think that’s whats great about here. I feel like there’s always something to add. Whereas with other socials you never know what you are gonna get in reply or whatever.

  • @starrox@lemmy.ml
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    2 years ago

    In all seriousness: I am trying. Hard to break the habit of lurking. But on the other hand I’ll often upvote something, so thats engagement right there :-)

    edit: also since someone said “less memes” - I’d recommend you this watch on the topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ

    If you want me to comment, there will be SOME memes. Heck, look at OP’s handle, how did you expect me NOT to do it? :O