There is this girl I have been talking to for a time. I like her, and we also share some common ground. Recently she told how she is struggling very much with anxiety.

She’s worried people dislike her, worried about people only pretending to be her friend, people slowly losing interest. She is without exaggeration suicidal about it. More over I overheard her saying she hates people who are only interest in sex.

And here is the damned kicker, I am only interest in having sex with her. Normally when people talk about how they dislike people only interested in sex, I take that as my cue to leave. It’s totally fine they feel this way, but it also means we’re not compatible. However seeing how this girl is damn near suicidal about people pretending to like her, I’m not sure what to do.

If she’s not into one night stands that’s fine but that does mean I’m walking (I’m also not interested in any friendship). But I don’t want her to kill herself over it either.

  • Kalvin
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    -63 days ago

    Hey. I wrote this for real. These aren’t ChatGPT, the idea.

    Please forgive me. I wrote them and my AI formaliser helped me to be more passionate

    • @throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOP
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      63 days ago

      and my AI formaliser helped me to be more passionate

      It actually very much did the opposite. Because now there is no actual passion behind it. None, whatsoever.

      • Kalvin
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        -23 days ago

        I am not good in delivering content with human emotion. What if I sent you content that you might not like. My bad English that people hate about it. I’m sorry. Seems like not every time I should use formaliser

          • Kalvin
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            3 days ago

            I am unable to talk to people that mocked my English, make fun of my nationality, yes of course maybe not now people do this. But some day will

            Edit: there is a risk for that and the some people will never I know they held accountable

            • @voracitude@lemmy.world
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              13 days ago

              Yes, people can be terrible and cruel. Most of us here have been mocked unfairly at some point in our lives, and there’s almost never accountability.

              It is best to just ignore those people. In your head you can say to them “Okay, loser” and move on - if they are mean, you don’t want to know them anyway.

              AI writes technically good English, but it’s very bad at writing with style - it’s basically only got one style and it’s very easy to pick out. If you want to use AI, you should use it to improve your English writing. You can paste your message, ask it for tips on what you should change, and rewrite it yourself; don’t copy paste what the AI writes.

              • Kalvin
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                -13 days ago

                I am not asking for advise now I’m asking to bee understood. But seems like deleting account button is the best for me now. But I don’t want to be alone too much either