• @recklessengagement@lemmy.world
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    1039 months ago

    Until I joined Lemmy I had no idea how militant vegans could be. I sorta just assumed they were a different brand of vegetarian.

    I’m not opposed to their ideaology in any way, but after reading the comments on a few posts that found their way into my feed… I had to block their communities. It didn’t seem likely that I’d be reading any productive discourse there.

    • @Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world
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      449 months ago

      I was vegan for 8 years and during that time I didn’t talk to anyone about it other than to say, “I don’t eat that.”

      I say that to say this - vegans are insufferable and a large reason why I quit the community and went back to omnivore. Even after 8 years, other vegans were still ‘more vegan’ and would nitpick the dumbest stuff.

      “Bro, did you eat a date? That killed a bee or something. Not cool.”

      Shut up with that. Let me eat my damn fruit.

      I was healthier though. But, to be fair, I was younger.

      • volvoxvsmarla
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        119 months ago

        You know what, it’s so much easier to say you’re an omnivore and end up eating meat once a year than to say you are a vegan who makes an exception about once a year. The first label would earn you a “wait so you’re basically vegan?!” vs “you’re not vegan then and you’re a dirty cheater”.

    • @AccountMaker@slrpnk.net
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      309 months ago

      Exactly my experience. I often heard stories of vegans being like that, but I never ever saw it so I thought it was just made up to belittle vegans.

      Then I joined lemmy and found out that I’m apparently in favour of massacres, slavery and rape because I consume meat/milk/eggs from time to time.

      I imagine the vast majority of vegans just go about their lives and resprectfully discuss the ethics of animal consumption when the topic comes up, but these loud militant members really make vegans look bad and they sure as hell make it so that even less people consider going vegan

      • @Machinist@lemmy.world
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        199 months ago

        Yes, them calling me a rapist totally made we want to be like them and adopt their ideology.

        Their strain of it appears to be poison religion like fundamentalist Christianity or Islam. A fanatic is a fanatic, whatever paint they’re dipped in. Guess they’re just trying to fill a hole in themselves.

        • @VelvetStorm@lemmy.world
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          169 months ago

          I’m not in favor of it, but I’m not going to stop eating meat. The second lab grown meat is available to people in my economic tier I’ll switch exclusively to that.

          • @JovialMicrobial@lemm.ee
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            109 months ago

            I’m really hoping that lab grown meat will be available soon. I have a weird genetic issue where my body doesn’t like to absorb certain vitamins from food so I get basically nothing from raw veggies, negligible amounts from cooked veggies, and a tiny bit more from meat, eggs and dairy.

            I take prescription vitamins, but according to my Dr I need to eat meat/animal products with them or risk going into a deficiency again… the last time I was deficient I had seizures and serious neurological issues.

            I hate the meat industry and factory farming, but also want my brain to function and to not have seizures.

            Lab grown meat will solve this dilemma for me.

            • Bo7a
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              69 months ago

              I also have severe malabsorption and can’t process most veg at all. I have been told hundreds of times that I am lying, and that I don’t need to eat meat. To some of these people it is better for us to suffer than to eat meat, while they claim to subscribe to a philosophy of reducing suffering.

              • @JovialMicrobial@lemm.ee
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                49 months ago

                Yeah, it’s frustrating to say the least.

                If I went vegan I’d probably suffer a very slow, agonizing death from my brain going haywire and seize until I go into psychosis and die. If my body could take it I’d probably be a vegetarian and eat only local eggs and cheese, but it’s a bad idea according to my doctor. It sucks.

                  • Bo7a
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                    29 months ago

                    With consent, and with cells from someone I know/love - Sure!

              • @JovialMicrobial@lemm.ee
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                Absolutely! I’m hoping it’s available soon since it’s more ethical than my current options.

                Edit - missed the human part lmao. I would probably try it if it hurt no one and was offered to me

          • @MindTraveller@lemmy.ca
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            -89 months ago

            Ah, so you’re saying you don’t like it, but you find it an acceptable sacrifice to make in exchange for yummy food?

            • @VelvetStorm@lemmy.world
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              49 months ago

              100% yes. I am fully aware that being vegan is, in my opinion, the more ethical option but I can and will continue to eat meat because 1 it’s cheap, it’s plentiful, I know how to and can cook with it well and because yes it tastes so fucking good. I don’t mean this as a 3edgy5me thing but fuck me I love a nice ribeye stake with butter and garlic cloves and a baked potato.

              • @MindTraveller@lemmy.ca
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                -49 months ago

                Okay, but you have to know about plant-based steaks and vegan butter. And of course you know about vegan garlic and vegan potato, because all garlic and potato is vegan. What’s the extra cost of a vegan steak compared to an animal steak in your area? In mine it’s around 3 dollars.

                • @VelvetStorm@lemmy.world
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                  59 months ago

                  I have never seen a plant based stake at my local grocery stores. The next time I am there to pick out a stake, I will also look and ask specifically for a plant based one, and I will try it. But I have had other stuff like plant based burgers, and while they are ok, they just can’t hold up to the taste of a meat burger.

                • @uranibaba@lemmy.world
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                  19 months ago

                  plant-based steaks

                  I’ve tried plenty of different plant based meat substitutes and so for, not one of them can hold a candle to the real taste. Like, it is not even close in my opinion. I can see the market for it, but plant based diet can be incredible when not trying to impersonate meat. Like lentils with curry. Not meat required and super tasty.

                  So would argue that meat substitutes are the wrong way to go if you want to eat tasty non meat stuff.

                  • @HonorableScythe@lemm.ee
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                    29 months ago

                    I’m not vegan but I eat plenty of incidentally vegan meals, and all of the best ones have been the ones that weren’t trying to imitate another food. They just can’t get the texture right and I’d rather not eat some squishy disc of beans and wheat while trying to convince myself it’s a burger. It’s not. I know it’s not and pretending doesn’t make it any more of one. Give me a good soup or curry or pasta dish instead.

                  • @Tayb@lemmy.world
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                    29 months ago

                    Plant-based meat tastes like what vegans think meat tastes like. I’d much rather eat the vegan foods that are prepared without imitation ingredients.

        • Angry_Autist (he/him)
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          69 months ago

          Never fails in a discussion about how fundamentally shitty vegans are that there will be a ton of vegans invading the thread to prove the point definitively.

    • @Confused_Emus@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      309 months ago

      I stick with Margaret Cho’s advice on vegans from her Assassin tour back in 2005:

      And especially, especially, don’t fuck with vegans. Do not look vegans in the eye. If you get into an argument with a vegan, say “I’m wrong” and run away as fast as you can. Do not fuck with vegans because they will fuck you up…BECAUSE THEY’RE HUNGRY.

        • @DarthFrodo@lemmy.world
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          09 months ago

          Inflammatory prejudices are only bad when others have them. They’re definitely the hateful ones, so lets spread some hate about them.

          • Angry_Autist (he/him)
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            49 months ago

            I haven’t given out a quarter of the verbal abuse that has been heaped on me by people who feel morally superior over their diet.

            • @DarthFrodo@lemmy.world
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              09 months ago

              I’m sorry to hear that. The thing is, you mainly hear from those who are the most vocal, and those tend to be the most angry and therefore unreasonable. And those probably had their fair share of verbal (and/or physical) abuse from meat eaters, as vegans are hated on by a much, much larger part of society than the other way around. (That doesn’t justify their hate, of course)

              It’s all a self reinforcing dynamic of groups riling each other up, unfortunately.

              • Angry_Autist (he/him)
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                19 months ago

                Look, I really dgaf about all of you ‘no really guise veeegans are nice!’ when my entire life has been episode after episode of the opposite.

    • JaggedRobotPubes
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      119 months ago

      Vegans being annoying was a thing awhile ago, but they really chilled out. This is a smaller band of die-hards.

      “Chilling out” is of course a terrible metric when animal abuse is on the line but being good to animals would make you vegetarian, not vegan, and yet that was never where the righteousness was coming from.

    • Lemminary
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      109 months ago

      Quite a bit of their content is antagonizing and alienating. What a shame.

      • @Z3k3@lemmy.world
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        09 months ago

        I have met 1 and married her. But yo be fair she is just vegetarian whi developed a dairy allergy knocking out the non veg part of her diet

        Makes a dumb good steak too

        • Angry_Autist (he/him)
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          09 months ago

          I have to admit, diet restriction vegans (and not the ones that just think meat is icky and can get a doctor to sign off on it) do not fall into the general stereotype but then only one of them ever had a chance to speak to me and she would sneak chicken occasionally so I don’t really consider her vegan as such. Also she was a work associate and I normally never bring up the subject in the office.

          There may be reasonable vegans out there, and I have actively sought them on forums and IRL through school clubs and protests. I have never IRL raised my voice, never used a derogatory label harsher than ‘leafeater’ and that only once. Yet I am so ridiculously burned out by the arguments and harsh words I’ve endured that I’m done holding any hope out any longer.

            • Angry_Autist (he/him)
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              29 months ago

              In respect for your wife and those like her, from now on I will try and use ‘ideological vegan’ to describe the specific subgrouping.

              Thanks for being the one sane person in this thread.