important part being the fact that u get the xmr from a non custodial to your own xmr wallet and then sending transactions from there.

xmr is by default private. you buy any coins via a CEX where u are kycd, use a non custodial exchange to get monero and from that point on its not traced back to you when you initiate a payment to somebody.

Vps so far was looking for dedicated options. Service is very cheap, 0.01 xmr for a 3 months sub but im reinvesting every revenue into the service

i was definitely planning to put up a section on the website about certain server-side configurations, however the backend is not meant to be open source. It runs with wireguard so theres not much configuration anyways, wireguard is by default not logging any data + as i mentioned i have a script that runs every 5 minutes checking for inactive handhakes, flushing the endpoint after 10 minutes of inactivity removing the endpoint from memory aswell, never gets on the disk anyways, never lives inside the .conf either its all done by a script.