UniversalBasicJustice

She sounds just like my Dio! He, too, is a yellow-eyed ink blot.

You’re not almost home free and thinking like that is harmful to your future.

You will still have a relationship with her; by scared I mean scared of her husband finding out. Be VERY careful about who you tell about whatever evidence you have and limit the details you share here as well. Taking that route is likely to end poorly for everyone involved.

Make other, less dangerous plans as well. You need to consider and plan for several worst case scenarios. One plan is zero plans. Life is messy at the best of times and your situation is already messy.

Equity frequently has strings attached such as vesting periods or other sale restrictions. You may have to remain an employee for a certain period of time. The equity is only worth something if the company succeeds.

Consult with a lawyer familiar with contract law in the jurisdiction the company is registered in. Don’t mention your evidence, don’t mention the sex or cheating. All they need to know is that you are a professional entering into a business contract. Make sure the language in the contract is legal and determine several exit scenarios.

An appealing but dangerous path. If they’re that rich, what happens to you when the husband finds out? What happens when the woman finds out your origins, or if she gets bored or scared?

There is a distinct possibility she says “I love you” because you treat her like a human being rather than a payday. It’s quite possible you are on a very short list of people who have done so. Whether you continue treating her that way or not is a question you have to face.

You are already deep in this situation. Be mindful that it will change, likely against you. Be careful and cover your ass. Consult with a lawyer, preferably from her own jurisdiction. At minimum review the contract terms with them and figure out your rights and liabilities.

I’m not saying don’t do it, just to be cautious. Plan for as many outcomes as you can. It very likely is the best chance you’ll have to climb the socioeconomic ladder in a world hell-bent on preventing you from doing so. Her wealth is pillaged from your peers and her privilege from a system designed to insulate the rich from the consequences of their actions. Just realize you will also be key with the consequences of your actions as well and you are far less insulated from them.

Best of luck.

My Master’s degree, if not a PhD, preferably in Sweden or at least the EU. Space was my original aspiration but now I’m thinking renewable energy or a similar engineering field with an eye toward helping adapt to climate change.

You can and will do it.

Narcolepsy sleep test in less than a month 😵‍💫

I was thinking ayahuasca without a shaman.

That’s XCOM baby!