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1 day agoSpousal debt: Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin.
Other debts: About 30 states have archaic, rarely enforced laws that can make adult children legally responsible for their parents’ unpaid necessities, like medical or nursing home bills.
IANAL and this is a summary from Google, so I cannot vouch for the accuracy of any of it. I can just tell you that in my experience, NY does not pass on debt to spouses.
Like I’ve said, I do not know this stuff. A Google search says:
You do not automatically inherit your grandparent’s debt in any U.S. state, including New York. Debts are the responsibility of the deceased person’s estate, not the heirs. However, you may become personally liable in any state if you co-signed a loan, jointly held accounts with the right of survivorship, or acted as a legal guarantor. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
While there are no states where grandchildren specifically inherit general debt, over 20 states have historical “filial responsibility” laws that can legally require adult children to pay for the unpaid medical or elder care expenses of their indigent parents. [6, 7, 8]
How Care-Related Debt Could Impact You
If you are dealing with debt collection for a deceased relative, you can review your rights in the FTC Consumer Advice on Debts and Deceased Relatives and use the
Consumer Financial Protection Bureau
to report unlawful or abusive collection practices.
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[1] https://www.metlife.com/stories/legal/can-you-inherit-debt/
[2] https://www.youtube.com/shorts/6zwsytrEddc
[3] https://www.viewridgelaw.com/2025/10/will-i-inherit-my-parents-debt/
[4] https://vicklaw.org/can-i-inherit-the-debt-of-a-loved-one/
[5] https://www.debt.org/advice/deceased-relatives/
[6] https://www.nationaldebtrelief.com/blog/financial-wellness/family-finances/can-you-inherit-debt-what-you-need-to-know-about-your-parents-debt-and-inherited-liabilities/
[7] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Filial_responsibility_laws
[8] https://trustandwill.com/learn/filial-responsibility-law
[9] https://www.carolinafep.com/library/what-happens-to-debt-when-a-person-dies-.cfm
[10] https://www.ncsl.org/resources/map-monday-states-spell-out-when-adult-children-have-a-duty-to-care-for-parents
[11] https://cielitolindoseniorliving.com/filial-laws-in-the-21st-century-balancing-family-care-and-financial-burdens/