I have a good group of friends and a reasonable sized family. I can’t wrap my head around these weddings with 100-300 guests. Am I a loser or are they inviting mostly tertiary characters.

  • Starya67@lemmy.world
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    4 hours ago

    I got married at 40. Parents, siblings, 3 friends. We had a blast.

    I have about 30 friends, but they’re all over the world. These 3 friends lived where we got married.

    I have a large family, but why would I want to waste money (for both them and me) inviting them to a huge event during which I probably won’t get to talk to them because there are so many people?