• mr_noxx@lemmy.ml
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    9 days ago

    There have been times in my life where I was happy but didn’t realize it until it was too late, so this checks out.

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      9 days ago

      “I wish there was a way to know you’re in the good old days before you’ve actually left them.” Andy Bernard

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      9 days ago

      I mean… I would expect most happy people don’t really fully appreciate it unless they consciously work on it… our brains are wired to notice pain - we adapt to comfort. It’s why people who already have the world still want MORE.

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        I think culture plays a huge part in this. In heavily industrialized countries (like America, for example), we are taught that more is always better and that living a simple life is somehow shameful or a waste of potential (not everyone believes this, of course - I’m generalizing). Many, many studies have consistently shown that the happiest people on earth are often those who lead the simplest lives. Perspective really is everything.