Please don’t tell me “see a therapist” I know that already.

  • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world
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    My rebuttal is that your mom’s a bitch and there’s no reason to pay attention to anything she says.

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      Confirmed. Tagged this person before, I’ve noticed they often comment about some fucked up shit their mom says. But they’re young and probably not able to escape it yet unfortunately :/

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    She’s utterly wrong. Take Robin Williams as an example: he was famous, rich, loved by everybody, stupendously funny. Still had depression. Still suffered.

    It has nothing to do with people’s “value” or their work ethic.

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      He had Lewy Body Dementia, which is a horrific disease. That’s why he killed himself. Not depression. Look into what it’s like to experience that disease, and you would probably want to kill yourself also.

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        I wrote a longer comment above, but you should know that the symptom of actual clinical depression is present in many neurological disorders, including Lewy Body Dementia: when both are present they cannot be separated.

        But what you say is absolutely true: the disease is beyond horrible.

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    That statement has as much empirical evidence behind it as stating that depression is caused by the lost souls of dead aliens from an ancient federation killed by an evil overlord being stuck to your person and generating negative thoughts as a result of their traumatic death.

    Hitchen’s Razor is your ally; what can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence.

    Tell your mom some random on the internet told her she can eat a bag of dicks.

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        Scientoligical, even. Just listening to it, I can feel my personal agency transcending its bond with matter to the point of mastery over it as I shed those lost souls. If you too, would like to learn how, please DM me and have a payment method ready. Trascendental enlightenment ain’t cheap.

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    1. All humans have an inherent value.
    2. Depression has numerous contributing environmental, social, and biological factors.
    3. Who asked bitch? Shut your dumb ass up.
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    There’s no rebuttal. Some people are just wrong and honestly better of out of your life.

    Also, I can’t imagine she’s just a great, enriching person except for those two opinions.

    Prune her of your life.

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    I’m sorry you have to deal with that sort of toxicity in your family. There is no good rebuttal because it just seems like a lack of empathy, no one can make her care.

    I’m sure that’s rough for you. Wishing you happy holidays despite this callus friction. 💜❤️♥️😘

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    I’d tell them to shut the fuck up and not to speak that way about people in my presence.

    My parents try to bait me into silly and shitty discussions like this, usually prompted by some conservative bullshit they saw on their preferred news program, and I just very simply say: “We can’t discuss this because it is going to make me hate you.” That’s been enough to put an end to it for me.