When you mistake “how are you” for a serious question…
i rambled the other day about how I already have a headstone in the ground with my name on it; my first wife died when I was 32. Said it’s easy, I’ll just make sure I “go” right in front of it so nobody has to worry about cleanup. Was joking in a dark way, around my peer firefighters. Realized there were teens listening who were boggled I have a stone already. I’m fine.
Honestly, that’s just a very responsible thing to do. Good for you
well to be honest at 32 I didn’t figure I would marry again. Though I did years later. My wife now understands as much as one can and knows my wishes. (cremate. 50 in first plot 50 anywhere else. :) )
My co-worker is young and reckless while I’m twice his age and supposedly normal. We often get stuck together for 10 hour days so we talk a lot. I don’t share too many emotional details with him but occasionally like to let loose a bit to fuck with him. He seriously told me I’ve said some things that really scared him. But he won’t tell me what they are!
