• @rouxdoo@lemmy.world
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    244 months ago

    Being of use to someone else - something as simple as opening a door or something as hard as helping someone change a tire on the road. That karma is like a hit of the stuff I don’t do anymore.

    • IninewCrow
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      104 months ago

      I once heard this one from an Italian and didn’t understand it until I experienced it … a big heavy pasta meal in the evening, then strong espresso coffee in the morning, then have the most massive #2 happen all at once as quickly as possible. This only happens if you keep up a healthy diet, plenty of exercise and everything is working just right. It’s disgusting to talk about and describe but absolutely refreshing and even invigorating to pass that much material from your body.

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠
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    194 months ago

    Can’t believe no one has said “flow state” yet.

    I wait tables, and I’m damn good at it. When everything goes just right on a really busy shift, it’s common for experienced waitresses to hit flow state and it’s one of many addictive patterns that keeps people, especially people with ADHD, in this job.

    For those unfamiliar, flow state is a qualitative shift in consciousness that increases awareness of task-related stimuli and decreased awareness of irrelevant stimuli while speeding up reaction time, draining away uncertainty, and making every small success feel like it’s propelling you forward. It’s got some of the energy of an adrenaline rush without the comedown — flow state gracefully fades out without a crash. It’s like you just became more efficient, everything you need is right to hand, and triaging and prioritizing the subtasks in front of you becomes effortless.

    It is the second-best part of my job, even better than the feeling of genuinely helping people.

  • Cyrus Draegur
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    104 months ago

    Generosity. The warm fuzzy tingly cozy sensation I get when I help a friend out, or even the occasional stranger, with getting a ride, or a meal, or taking the edge off an emergency expense, it never gets old.

    Unfortunately not in a position to do that right now. I’m accumulating an emergency fund for making some bigger moves later…

  • Pennomi
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    84 months ago

    Like, have you ever gone on a sugar fast for a couple days then drank some fruit juice? That shit hits HARD.

  • @StickyDango@lemmy.world
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    64 months ago

    When someone I’ve gifted food to sends me a message later in the day telling me the food, bread, whatever was sensational. It tells me that I’ve nailed their food preferences and tastes. I’ve done a good job.

    Food is my love language and it’s how I like to say thank you and show appreciation.