Art by J. L. Westover

  • @Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world
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    209 months ago

    I was listening to a self help book about bad habits and it keeps going on about video games=time waste, don’t do it. Honestly that’s bullshit and I’m sick of that viewpoint. What if that’s what I like to do in my down time to relax? Why is playing video games a bad habit but watching a movie isn’t?

    • idunnololz
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      29 months ago

      Because once you play enough video games, you will develop the urge to commit a shooting /s

    • @lath@lemmy.world
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      29 months ago

      Their point might have been to do something constructive. To get a skill out of it you can use to provide for yourself if need be. So they’re probably thinking of carpentry, pottery, gardening or other vocational hobbies…

    • macrocarpa
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      39 months ago

      My experience with stressors is that they are relative, and they scale to fit the available worry. I’m stressed about work, but from personal experience I have been just as stressed about being unemployed or about school. Therefore the stress is the common thing - if it is common then adjusting to the stress is more productive than avoiding the stresses.

      Hence meditation, exercise, meaningful relationships, etc.

    • @Nemoder@lemmy.ml
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      69 months ago

      Exactly, just got to find that balance. Like slacking off and playing games at work.
      Or my fav: playing complex games that are basically a second job!

  • @workerONE@lemmy.world
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    29 months ago

    After they’ve taken care of shelter and clothing people tend to work until they can feed themselves and then stop working for a while