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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • The person who is being called a Nazi, is not being called a Nazi because they said someone else was ugly. They’re calling her ugly because she made a comic disparaging Nazi/fascist behavior and their response to said comic was to call her ugly. You have this backwards.


  • Even if you weren’t a Nazi, what on earth about this post makes you feel a need to comment on somebody’s appearance.

    “You’re presenting fascist behavior.” “Yeah? Well you’re ugly.”

    Do you see how one of these things is like… Not an opinion? And the response to pointing out problematic behavior is just more problematic behavior?













  • I recently moved out of my apartment into a new place and when I reached out to friends to help me move some larger pieces of furniture, I suddenly found myself in the middle of a scheduling conundrum where people were telling me what time and day they were individually free. I was trying to coordinate with them to see when was best for them. Then it hit me, I was asking for a favor not planning a party. It then became very easy for me to just consider most of them busy. I moved 90% of it by myself. I got one friend to help me move 2 pieces of furniture that I could not physically disassemble and that was that. That friend gets a reward for the help and I’m still a little bitter that everyone else was too busy.

    Asking for help moving will show you really how far some people will go for you.